TinyChan

I got engaged (for my second time) when I was 30. Met a girl in Michigan when I was finishing up the first part of my medical residency. She moved with me to connecticut. At some point in 2022, i decided to shave my head because i have really dense curly hair and walking to work with a wet head of hair in freezing cold sucked. She was 22 all her friends were 19-25.Long story short. When i shaved my head all her friends kept telling her i was too old for her.At first we thought it was funny.But little did i know the seed was planted.One day we got into an argument and she said, u know its creepy that you moved me out here, Way from my friends and my family, and i have no support network except you, you look like your 37 (i was 31 at the time) and she stormed out calling me creepy. 😂.I brushed it off.Im like i get that i look 26 with a full head of hair and like an old dude with it shaved and i planned on growing it back out when i finished my surgical residency. Long story short. We didnt make it that far.Eventually her friends got in her head and convicned her to start hanging out with a significantly younger guy (who was 29 years old and had hair 😂) And i, a future surgeon (in one year)Got cheated on, and subsequently left, by my fiancée.Who i later found out, left me for an rv salesman who was 2 years younger than me. Who she subsequently married like 10 months later. And then moved back to michigan with (to her home town) because she could not afford the east coast life. It took a bit of time to recover from. I was really depressed, girl was my best friend at the time. And after my first failed marriage, i thought i knew what i wanted in life and after a number of diff gf’s i had decided on what i thought was the right one. Spiraled for a few weeks, lost a bit of weight, people at work started noticing i looked tired and anxious (pretty sure they thought i was on drugs). Because they scheduled for me to meet with administrators a few times for concern for my mental and physical health. But i did what i thought was best. And i grinded though the pain. Everytime i had a hard day at work, id use the pain of knowing i was second place to a used rv salesman in connecticut. I used that pain as a whip to tell myself “do better” “work harder” “be smarter” “get more jacked” “perhaps start selling used rv’s on the side”. Anyways. I finished my specialty training, grew my hair out. Moved down to sunny florida, got a new gf who’s 3 years younger than the last one. And a job making close to seven figures. And all the weight i lost, i heard through the grapevine that she had found it. In the end life deals some pretty painful blows. And i attribute my success to watching lots of anime and seeing the main characters make it out of impossible situations by evolving to their next tier persona. Final words of warning. Nothing lasts forever, and even a sure thing is not guaranteed. Fear not what you know but the used rv salesman that you don’t know. There’s a lesson in here somwhere.

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A cinderella story

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@OP
> left me for an rv salesman who was 2 years younger than me.
I stopped reading there as you really need to put some space between all that text.

Oh perhaps his Vertical Hold, was more better than yours?

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