Topic: Understanding women
+Anonymous A — 6 months ago #67,398
So I’m a guy and I’m attracted to women, but I’ve never been that curious about women really. Or I guess curious is the wrong word, I’ve never gone out of my way to impress women or anything. I’m not gonna bother explaining it. But basically, one time, on the internet, I was on some website, and there were a bunch of left leaning women talking about how horrible people who are against abortion are and how they hate the though of having wombs. So then I said something like, "Even as a dude I’d be scared to have sex because I don’t want to randomly end up with a kid." And then, these same women were immediately all like, "Actually I don’t really care if I get pregnant. I probably wouldn’t get an abortion." And it’s like… I’m not sexist or anything, but that’s the moment when I realized that, there’s literally zero point in bothering to understand women. There isn’t anything there to understand in the first place. I don’t understand men either, but that’s mostly a decision I make. I’m okay inside my own head. Other people’s heads, nope. "I don’t care if I get pregnant." I don’t care if somebody comes into my house, ties me down, and saws my leg off. It’s just a normal part of life, it’s not like it permanently changes everything or anything like that. Why would somebody care about getting their leg cut off randomly? Pff.
·Anonymous A (OP) — 6 months ago, 1 minute later[T] [B] #669,688
For the record I’m left leaning myself that wasn’t supposed to imply anything about left leaning women like that’s bad or something. That’s not the thing. The thing is, that’s an absurd thing to not care about.
·Anonymous A (OP) — 6 months ago, 3 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #669,690
But on the topic of having kids, when I’m 70, I wanna have adult kids. But kid kids, idk about. I mean, when you start getting older, you start getting medical bills, you start having to need assisted living type stuff… people can barely afford to survive as old people when they have multiple kids. Imagine being the old dude at the retirement home who never gets visitors because his whole family is dead because he never had any kids. I think that’s what we call a mistake. However: I don’t like the idea of imagining myself as a parent. Idk why, I just don’t envision that or identify with it.
+Anonymous B — 6 months ago, 14 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,746
> I’m not sexist or anything, but that’s the moment when I realized that, there’s literally zero point in bothering to understand women.
im pretty sure this a required milestone in becoming a man.
+Gavin !!FuSdYgg+0e — 6 months ago, 10 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,747
I don’t understand them
And they scare me
What’s going on in there
It’s like they a quantum computer
And I’m a calculator
And all I can do is show on my screen
80085 over n over
not even a strong enough calculator
To power the moon mission
Back in time
Sigh
80085 pls madam
( hehehe I’m lying in a quantum computer pretending to be a calculator 😈 )
(Edited 3 minutes later.)
+Anonymous D — 6 months ago, 4 hours later, 19 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,801
they can change their minds at the last minute if they want but I agree with you I dont want to randomly have a kid. especially if i no say in the matter so at this point its either a vasectomy or condoms or just no sex. the financial/mental strain of having a kid is just not worth it. Plus if it turns out you're a single parent you're screwed. People will try to goad another "oh but a real man blahblah" Nah my personal comfort and sanity supersede the need to prove to a faceless mob "hey look im a responsible single parent that makes me manly give me mah street credit"
·Anonymous D — 6 months ago, 3 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,802
Like I understand that those women just want to have the option keep or abortion and that nobody can nor should have a say unless they ask. Im all for it but there are others disagree because "pro life" or whatever strange straw man argument they fabricate to justify their more fucked up motives.
·Anonymous D — 6 months ago, 4 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,803
I think in some states(prolly blue but a few red states) women dont even mind becoming s single parent because of the benefits they recieve + nobody judges a single mom as much as single dad. if anything they often look for partners to get pregnant because they get a certain amount moment per child plus in the case of shelters they first priority when placed in housing lottery. More reason not to have kids with a woman I dont intend to hold down for life.
+soot !hVP5Xjqyjo — 6 months ago, 1 hour later, 21 hours after the original post[T] [B] #669,819
I honestly have no problem with understanding women. to me at a fundamental level they're pretty much all the same. Also in regards to men they're no better nor different from us. almost all of them have one thing in common: They're not stupid and are quick to discern just about anything a man does. Most of the time they struggle to align heart, body and mind. Sometimes they want the trad guy with 2 kids, a house, etc but also have the emotional support and superior communication/listening skills but also they'd want to feel safe in every way possible and trust with no doubt whatsoever along. Now Regarding sex its different across the board, but it seems like they mostly want to explore your body and vice versa but also want the option of being both sub and dom and try all sorts of stuff since they need a lot of stimulation to get off. ultimately though some have a preferred bias towards one or the other. Generally speaking though it seems like on average they prefer some level of domination/assertion. They also want test your patience to see how well can you handle something like indecisiveness and uncertainty especially with them as they're going through their highs and lows and how you react to things. It'll seem like insurmountable task but the reality is you'd have to be a near perfect specimen. going to the gym/having money to pay for stuff certainly helps to degree but its a short term solution. its weird but in a strange way they do like stress testing men because sometimes a patient man and calculated man is the most dangerous but attractive like if he go home with blue balls, no double texting and just simply being a busy and unavailable it shows her that you're not some guy waiting for easy access and solutions, which is pretty much dont be incel but also dont be a simp or a hardcore manosphere red pill. show them respect, expect nothing back, take the rejection and move on but assert your dominance and stance on things. Its a long ass game of wits but ultimately its just series of tests to challenge you to see if you can handle accessing their temples. They already know exactly what we want and how we like things.
also assume that they read all these threads, posts and discussion. This is how they get their information on the current male landscape because it gives them an insight or temp check on what we're doing or how we like things. Also make sure you have friends or least have people that you hangout occasionally because they use as a red flag indictor( yes I know it sucks especially as you get older because men dont really care to make new friends and we like our solitude) but for some reason due to true crime shows ruining the perception of a high functional male hermit. They equate that as possible killer/creep vibes or something's off about you cant make or keep friends. it sucks but thats the bit that nobody seems to point out.
(Edited 5 minutes later.)