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Topic: Dumped for being broke.
+Brokenheartedgirl — 11 months ago #66,112
I just want to say to men: I understand the pain of being dumped for not having money. My ex boyfriend is from a wealthy family, but I think due to the fact that he's an alcoholic, his parents did not allow him access to much money.
I on the other hand, I'm middle class. I was a student who just wrote my final exam last Thursday actually. When me and my ex dated, I found myself paying for everything. It wasn't easy because I was a student after all but I wanted to keep him happy and always made arrangements. Things got to a point where we fought and broke up when he wanted me to spend money I did not have on alcohol.
After about three weeks of seperation, he came back and we were working on reuniting. We met up and for the first time ever he paid for something. Only two weeks after reuniting he posted on instagram his new girlfriend. I'm not sure when him and the girl met. After repeatedly gaslighting me and lying about the nature of their relationship. He finally admitted that she is "his wife" after I found her Instagram account. He proceeded to block me everywhere and instructed her to do the same thing.
I won't lie, I'm gutted. I am heartbroken and my ego is bruised. From going through her social media, I know the fact that she has money was a main driving factor of him choosing her over me. I feel terrible. I wish I was wealthy too because I'd probably still have him in my life. We would have never even broken up over money in the first place.
I love him so much and it is gut-wrenching to know that the person who claimed to love me told me that him coming back into my life "meant nothing" the very next day. I wish he could've atleast handled this with the sensitivity and empathy I deserved instead of the insults and disrespect he showed me.
I'm graduating soon and should be at the top of my world, but I'm grieving this relationship. I feel like I'm in a black hole.
+Dark !e/dFkWa5V. — 11 months ago, 15 minutes later[T] [B] #660,157
Are you Goth, Emo, or Punk by chance?
+Anonymous C — 11 months ago, 7 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #660,171
@OP
Your ex is what is called a 'user'. His resentment towards his wealthy parents for not always giving in to his sense of entitlement is a pattern he carries into 'relationships' which are purely transnational and utilitarian. If he feels he was cheated by his parents emotionally but they overindulged him with material things, then the material is what he seeks and not genuine affection. Now he is like them..basically a con-artist. Avoiding introspection by angling for advantage while rejecting responsibility is their way of evading accountability. He will likely always be this way. Try to move learn from new experiences or you will stay in that hole, making yourself ill while they live their lives always looking for someone to use.
+Anonymous D — 11 months ago, 41 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #660,174
@660,157 (Dark !e/dFkWa5V.)
Forget about her. Your Ex chose a rotting dead body over your body. You have nothing to offer a living woman.
·Anonymous C — 11 months ago, 20 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #660,177
+ducky !MwWb.dJjRc — 11 months ago, 20 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #660,180
+Anonymous F — 11 months ago, 1 day later, 2 days after the original post[T] [B] #660,303
@660,174 (D)
he's a troll, but that was a damn good burn