Topic: What makes a male "beta"? and how can they undo it?
+Anonymous A — 1.2 year ago #65,384
If today a self aware beta male came along. say he's a rail thin skinny coomer and in his early 30's. He's aware he's cooked but wants to make the change and become sigma chad. How would he and should he go about it? What would you tell him? is it even at all possible?
+Anonymous B — 1.2 year ago, 1 hour later[T] [B] #656,450
i dunno, lol. turning away from fagdiets, paying attention to whats in the ingredient list of the food you eat, and getting in more exercise, and going outside more often is unlikely to hurt
but depending on how fucked you are that might just turn you into a mini "scream at TV during niggerball" boomer.
probably not a bad idea to visit a /fit/ either
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+Anonymous C — 1.2 year ago, 10 hours later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,466
The women your age are rapidly declining in looks if you want a good fuck, and their fertility is plummeting if you want to raise a healthy family.
Getting in shape takes time, financial stability takes time, meeting new women takes time, sifting through the new women to weed out the mentally ill, bops, and leeches takes years.
You can't make yourself an alpha, bone structure doesn't improve at the gym. You don't have the time to make the best of what your were dealt.
Want to fuck hot women, or find a loyal tradwife? You'll need to go abroad. If you choose this route, getting into shape doesn't actually matter. Fat assholes can pull women easily in eastern europe or se asia.
You're approaching this from the wrong angle, which is why you are where you are. 10 years ago you probably had the same attitude, right? Get in shape, learn to be funny, pay for dates. It didn't work then, it won't work now.
+Anonymous D — 1.2 year ago, 1 hour later, 13 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,471
Image change can help. New wardrobe, lose any geek hobbies if you're still playing videogames or Magic cards or anything, get good at money - open a money market account... ladder some CD's, buy some stocks, etc.
+Anonymous E — 1.2 year ago, 13 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,472
Had to look this UP
"Beta is sometimes used as self-identifier among men who do not embody hegemonic masculinity. It is also sometimes used by manospherians as a pejorative term for men who are or are perceived to be feminist, or who are thought to be acting as "white knights".
Such a Male needs a Ducky. Or self injected Lead into Brain.
·Anonymous A (OP) — 1.2 year ago, 1 hour later, 15 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,476
@656,471 (D)
> Image change can help. New wardrobe, lose any geek hobbies if you're still playing videogames or Magic cards or anything, get good at money - open a money market account... ladder some CD's, buy some stocks, etc.
Would you consider making art, reading, woodwork and gym count as hobbies?
·Anonymous A (OP) — 1.2 year ago, 2 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,477
@656,472 (E)
> Had to look this UP
> "Beta is sometimes used as self-identifier among men who do not embody hegemonic masculinity. It is also sometimes used by manospherians as a pejorative term for men who are or are perceived to be feminist, or who are thought to be acting as "white knights".
>
> Such a Male needs a Ducky. Or self injected Lead into Brain.
I disagree with the last bit. we dont need more cases of men unplugging themselves from life just because they've yet to figure out how to go about things. However that other stuff you said. yeah pretty spot on.
·Anonymous E — 1.2 year ago, 7 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,478
@previous (A)
Sure my last bit was very harsh. Life however isn't always fair. Some win some are doomed to failure.
+Anonymous F — 1.2 year ago, 1 hour later, 17 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,481
@656,476 (A)
Yes, they are all hobbies.
+Anonymous G — 1.2 year ago, 49 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,484
@previous (F)
Yep, OP just has to throttle it back. No 'sperging out. No writing letters to the editor of woodworking magazines. No hanging out forums. None of that shit. Having a few bullet points for a dating profile is fine, better than 'I like walks on the beach' drivel. Just cut any autistic nonsense.
·Anonymous A (OP) — 1.2 year ago, 4 hours later, 22 hours after the original post[T] [B] #656,486
@previous (G)
so do the opposite of an autistic person + less is more/have a healthy non loser hobby.
+Anonymous H — 1.2 year ago, 9 hours later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #656,493
·Anonymous H — 1.2 year ago, 1 week later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #656,765
Be strong, man.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3L9k1ZjI9k
Live for self-improvement.
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