Topic: How to stop being depressed?

+Anonymous — 1.3 year ago #65,177

I have struggled with it since a pre tween and I am on medication. I dislike my outlook in life but it's very hard to change it because it's chronic and genetic I barely found help since 2- 3 years ago after having it for a decade. What should I tell myself to stop being so whiny and look at the beautiful side in life despite hating my face and the people that hurt me? Thanks.

+Anonymous B — 1.3 year ago, 3 days later[T] [B] #654,260

pick up heavy things and then gently put them down- repeat until tired at least twice a day. smoke weed and watch hummingbirds/chickens.

(Edited 1 minute later.)

+Anonymous C — 1.3 year ago, 9 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,261

I broke out of that spiral in my 30's. Drugs and counseling helped a little, but it was landing stable work that mostly covered bills - that's what finally got me out. Nobody did me the favor and said my life actually did suck - I thought it was all in my head.

+Anonymous D — 1.3 year ago, 12 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,265

I once thought finding God would help. I found God, and, I found out he fucking hates me.
It did not help!

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 hours later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,271

@654,260 (B)
> pick up heavy things and then gently put them down- repeat until tired at least twice a day. smoke weed and watch hummingbirds/chickens.

Fuck this advice. I rather end it

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 20 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,272

@654,265 (D)
> I once thought finding God would help. I found God, and, I found out he fucking hates me.
> It did not help!

Same here I have bad luck in love and school and work

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 30 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,273

@654,261 (C)
> I broke out of that spiral in my 30's. Drugs and counseling helped a little, but it was landing stable work that mostly covered bills - that's what finally got me out. Nobody did me the favor and said my life actually did suck - I thought it was all in my head.

That doesn't help my situation time to grab the noose

+Anonymous E — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,274

First understand that it all comes from within. No one else is going to save you. There is no magic drug that will save you. Drugs only help you dissociate. Your broken negative mindset will still be there once the effects wear off. Change your thoughts and actions and you'll change your life.

So remove the negative mindset. Only have a positive internal dialogue and don't ever disrespect yourself. For a positive mental state you must do positive things and surround yourself with positivity. Positive actions and positive thoughts daily. Exercise, study something, anything big or small that will affect you positively will do. Clean your room! Because if you do nothing today and just think negatively you'll feel like nothing and be depressed. Do more and you'll become more. Do less and you'll feel like less.

Use your past only for experience gained. Don't live in the past because there's no going back so it'll just put you into a state of depression. Same with the future. Plan for the future but don't stress about the future. That'll just put you into a state of anxiety. It's not productive. Remember that tomorrow is promised to no one. So focus on making the present time the best it could possibly be.

And also remove the selfishness from your thoughts. Don't wake up thinking your life is shit and thinking your problems are insurmountable and that everything is about you. Remove the selfish I and me from your thoughts. Eliminate the victim mindset. Thinking you're a victim is the gateway to depression. So think instead how you can best serve the people around you today.

I don't know if this mindset will help you but it's what helped me. I feel great every day and none of the challenges of adult life we all face even phase me now. Now I chose the positive mindset over the negative one and I see problems as just another experience for me to overcome and learn from.

Choose the positive spin on life and alter your perception for the better.

+Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,275

@654,273 (Anonymous)
Think about things that made you happy in the past. How about going to a very nice place. Nature is good for the soul.

·Anonymous B — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,279

@654,271 (Anonymous)
make sure you livestream it for us then

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 8 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,280

@previous (B)
> make sure you livestream it for us then

Where should I live stream it? (Totally not trolling.)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 24 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,281

@654,274 (E)
> First understand that it all comes from within. No one else is going to save you. There is no magic drug that will save you. Drugs only help you dissociate. Your broken negative mindset will still be there once the effects wear off. Change your thoughts and actions and you'll change your life.
>
>
> So remove the negative mindset. Only have a positive internal dialogue and don't ever disrespect yourself. For a positive mental state you must do positive things and surround yourself with positivity. Positive actions and positive thoughts daily. Exercise, study something, anything big or small that will affect you positively will do. Clean your room! Because if you do nothing today and just think negatively you'll feel like nothing and be depressed. Do more and you'll become more. Do less and you'll feel like less.
>
> Use your past only for experience gained. Don't live in the past because there's no going back so it'll just put you into a state of depression. Same with the future. Plan for the future but don't stress about the future. That'll just put you into a state of anxiety. It's not productive. Remember that tomorrow is promised to no one. So focus on making the present time the best it could possibly be.
>
> And also remove the selfishness from your thoughts. Don't wake up thinking your life is shit and thinking your problems are insurmountable and that everything is about you. Remove the selfish I and me from your thoughts. Eliminate the victim mindset. Thinking you're a victim is the gateway to depression. So think instead how you can best serve the people around you today.
>
> I don't know if this mindset will help you but it's what helped me. I feel great every day and none of the challenges of adult life we all face even phase me now. Now I chose the positive mindset over the negative one and I see problems as just another experience for me to overcome and learn from.
>
> Choose the positive spin on life and alter your perception for the better.

All good advice but my brain is too fucked to corporate

(Edited 11 seconds later.)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,282

@654,275 (F)
> Think about things that made you happy in the past. How about going to a very nice place. Nature is good for the soul.

Too traumatized to travel

·Anonymous B — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,285

@654,280 (Anonymous)
youtube

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 33 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,287

@previous (B)
> youtube

Ok thank you

+Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 11 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,290

Depression is a natural reaction to certain conditions.

Do you have a stable and safe environment to live? Do you have a loving partner? If you meet those two conditions, you won't be depressed. If you don't, then you will be depressed.

Taking SSRIs to fix those problems is like taking opiates to fix pain, or taking amphetamines to fix hunger. All 3 can obscure the feelings, creating the illusion that you fixed the problem, but in reality you haven't fixed anything.

The people who push pills as a solution, instead of caring about you getting your needs met don't really care about you.

+Anonymous H — 1.3 year ago, 8 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,291

@654,274 (E)
I never ever thought I would ever hear this good of or sound advice here. Well said.

I highly doubt OP will take it as they are still in victim mode and until they see thru that they are fucked.

But either way, nice post and I totally agree with every word of it.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 6 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,295

@654,290 (G)
> Depression is a natural reaction to certain conditions.
>
> Do you have a stable and safe environment to live? Do you have a loving partner? If you meet those two conditions, you won't be depressed. If you don't, then you will be depressed.
>
> Taking SSRIs to fix those problems is like taking opiates to fix pain, or taking amphetamines to fix hunger. All 3 can obscure the feelings, creating the illusion that you fixed the problem, but in reality you haven't fixed anything.
>
> The people who push pills as a solution, instead of caring about you getting your needs met don't really care about you.

I have a stable environment I hate my grandparents though and cousins
I dont have a loving partner never been on a date at 23 yo f. The pills make me feel good without them like rn I feel like killing myself I don't take them on purporse sometimes because I feel I deserve the pain and also I'm lazy as fuck.

(Edited 46 seconds later.)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 17 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,296

@654,291 (H)
> I never ever thought I would ever hear this good of or sound advice here. Well said.
>
> I highly doubt OP will take it as they are still in victim mode and until they see thru that they are fucked.
>
> But either way, nice post and I totally agree with every word of it.

How am I in victim mode?

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,298

@654,295 (Anonymous)
If your cis just find a partner, evolution designed people to be unhappy alone.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,299

@previous (G)
> If your cis just find a partner, evolution designed people to be unhappy alone.

Not cis.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,300

@654,298 (G)
> If your cis just find a partner, evolution designed people to be unhappy alone.

IM FUCKING RETARDED IM CIS. IM STRAIGHT I THOUGHT THAT WAS GAY LINGO. AND WTF UR RIGHÞ JUST MY THOUGHTS THATS WHY IM DEPRESSED CAUSE NO GUYS I LIKE, LIKE ME IRL AND I FEEL LIKE THE MOST DISGUSTING PIECE OF MEAT IN THIS PLANET

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 32 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,301

@654,298 (G)
> If your cis just find a partner, evolution designed people to be unhappy alone.

I'm actually cis wtf I thought it was gay lingo

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 49 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,302

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 43 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,303

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 43 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,304

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 4 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,306

@654,300 (Anonymous)
If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.

This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.

+Anonymous I — 1.3 year ago, 24 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,307

@654,298 (G)
> Idk I kind like being alone and im a cis male. I get to hear myself think and I dont have to rely on drugs, alcohol or any fleeting relationship that wont give me any real fulfillment. I still talk to people like you guys here on TC but you're just strangers and if I ever bored of you or if I felt checked there's no stakes and I can just walk away.

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,309

@previous (I)
What?

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,310

@654,306 (G)
> If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.
>
> This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.

I dont drink. I'm not a booty call. Fuck dating apps I don't want to be kidnaped and killed. Talking to strangers is weird as fuck and awkward.not even fat guys hit on me.i don't have severe facial deformities but I have body dysphoric disorder. I have boderline personality disorder which makes me aggressive to guys.

(Edited 30 seconds later.)

·Anonymous I — 1.3 year ago, 46 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,311

@654,306 (G)
> If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.
>
> This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.

prolly. that or if you suffer from the typical severe Anxiety/BPD/Depression trifecta then chances are finding a guy is slim. unless he's autistic like sonic and anime and cats.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 51 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,312

@654,307 (I)
> > Idk I kind like being alone and im a cis male. I get to hear myself think and I dont have to rely on drugs, alcohol or any fleeting relationship that wont give me any real fulfillment. I still talk to people like you guys here on TC but you're just strangers and if I ever bored of you or if I felt checked there's no stakes and I can just walk away.

Lmao I wish I was this cool. Fuck being a woman tbh

·Anonymous I — 1.3 year ago, 28 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,313

@654,310 (Anonymous)
> > If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.
> >
> > This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.
>
> I dont drink. I'm not a booty call. Fuck dating apps I don't want to be kidnaped and killed. Talking to strangers is weird as fuck and awkward.not even fat guys hit on me.i don't have severe facial deformities but I have body dysphoric disorder. I have boderline personality disorder which makes me aggressive to guys.

yep. Perhaps try being with girls? have you had any luck with women?

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,314

@654,311 (I)
> > If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.
> >
> > This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.
>
> prolly. that or if you suffer from the typical severe Anxiety/BPD/Depression trifecta then chances are finding a guy is slim. unless he's autistic like sonic and anime and cats.

I have general anxiety and bpd and depression I'm not making this shit up bc I got diagnosed with this shit ok so don't call me attention seeking you pussies. At this point I wouldn't mind a weeb loving sonic anime cat guy because I'm the same way but as a woman

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 20 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,315

@654,313 (I)
> > > If you're a ciswoman and 23 then you can find a man.
> > >
> > > This has to be a bit because women don't post here, but I'll humor you. Go to a bar, or on tinder? Talk to strangers? IDK. Even if you're fat you could pull a man who's fat. Unless you have severe facial deformities or are actively hostile to guys you meet, you shouldn't have a problem.
> >
> > I dont drink. I'm not a booty call. Fuck dating apps I don't want to be kidnaped and killed. Talking to strangers is weird as fuck and awkward.not even fat guys hit on me.i don't have severe facial deformities but I have body dysphoric disorder. I have boderline personality disorder which makes me aggressive to guys.
>
> yep. Perhaps try being with girls? have you had any luck with women?

No thanks, I don't want to go to hell.

·Anonymous I — 1.3 year ago, 13 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,316

@654,312 (Anonymous)
> > > Idk I kind like being alone and im a cis male. I get to hear myself think and I dont have to rely on drugs, alcohol or any fleeting relationship that wont give me any real fulfillment. I still talk to people like you guys here on TC but you're just strangers and if I ever bored of you or if I felt checked there's no stakes and I can just walk away.
>
> Lmao I wish I was this cool. Fuck being a woman tbh

Idk Ive seen women pull it off all the time. if anything thats where I learned it from. most of them taught me indirectly. so its quite possible for you to pull it off. ofc imagine its bit easy.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,317

@654,261 (C)
My hair also falls off a lot fuck that I'm feeling very stressed out and depressed

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 3 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,318

@654,316 (I)
> > > > Idk I kind like being alone and im a cis male. I get to hear myself think and I dont have to rely on drugs, alcohol or any fleeting relationship that wont give me any real fulfillment. I still talk to people like you guys here on TC but you're just strangers and if I ever bored of you or if I felt checked there's no stakes and I can just walk away.
> >
> > Lmao I wish I was this cool. Fuck being a woman tbh
>
> Idk Ive seen women pull it off all the time. if anything thats where I learned it from. most of them taught me indirectly. so its quite possible for you to pull it off. ofc imagine its bit easy.

I'm sorry but that doesn't make sense at all

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,319

@654,310 (Anonymous)
If you're too afraid of talking to men, then of course you will be single. Men can't hit on women anymore because if they guess wrong they are labeled a creep and harasser, the risk is just too high.

Find a guy that you find attractive and just flirt. If he reject you, there are no serious consequences, and you can move on to the next. Feminism has created an environment where women have to do the work now.

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,320

@654,313 (I)
Evolution designed people to be happy with someone they can create offspring with, this is a band-aid that doesn't fix anything.

Lesbians have the highest rates of domestic violence, that isn't a sign of a health relationship.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 21 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,323

@654,319 (G)
> If you're too afraid of talking to men, then of course you will be single. Men can't hit on women anymore because if they guess wrong they are labeled a creep and harasser, the risk is just too high.
>
> Find a guy that you find attractive and just flirt. If he reject you, there are no serious consequences, and you can move on to the next. Feminism has created an environment where women have to do the work now.

Tf then more motivation to kill myself more. The guys are supposed to hit on me not the other way around.i don't want to look like a desperate potato

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 25 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,324

@654,320 (G)
> Evolution designed people to be happy with someone they can create offspring with, this is a band-aid that doesn't fix anything.
>
> Lesbians have the highest rates of domestic violence, that isn't a sign of a health relationship.

Based comment.

+Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 10 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,327

@654,323 (Anonymous)
Hello mommacitta
I haven’t read the thread but I am interested
Hugely

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,328

@previous (J)
> Hello mommacitta
> I haven’t read the thread but I am interested
> Hugely

Youre probably ugly bye

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,329

@previous (Anonymous)
Yeah but I have the secret to inner peace
So you want to bump uglies and find peace
Or just be sad and shit

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 19 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,330

@654,327 (J)
> Hello mommacitta
> I haven’t read the thread but I am interested
> Hugely

I also want a real relationship @!!! Not an online one@@! Plus ur prob trolling I called u ugly bc I am preventing to be hurt I have bpd I'm crazy scram

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,331

@previous (Anonymous)
if you live in Western Europe maybe it can be real…

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 5 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,332

@previous (J)
> if you live in Western Europe maybe it can be real…

I'm fucked no..

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 6 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,333

@previous (Anonymous)
Damn I’m banned from entering the continental United States
If you want a spiritual online lover I’m here
I can also role play as a surfer if need be
Yo get my board wax I’ve seen a turtle wrapped in plastic I need to save him

·Anonymous G — 1.3 year ago, 6 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,334

@654,323 (Anonymous)
If you would rather spend decades alone than initiate a conversation, then it sounds like you want to be alone.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 20 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,335

@previous (G)
> If you would rather spend decades alone than initiate a conversation, then it sounds like you want to be alone.

That's fucked up man I feel like an among us imposter.

·Anonymous B — 1.3 year ago, 15 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,337

@previous (Anonymous)
thats an unhealthy way to frame it. instead of impostor, try gondola.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 27 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,338

@previous (B)
> thats an unhealthy way to frame it. instead of impostor, try gondola.

What is that supposed to mean?

·Anonymous H — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,339

@654,296 (Anonymous)
> > I never ever thought I would ever hear this good of or sound advice here. Well said.
> >
> > I highly doubt OP will take it as they are still in victim mode and until they see thru that they are fucked.
> >
> > But either way, nice post and I totally agree with every word of it.
>
> How am I in victim mode?

Read back some of your replies.

> Same here I have bad luck in love and school and work

Bad luck or bad choices?

You think you're the only one who isn't happy with their relationships, school or jobs?

Don't like the way they are going....change it. Change the way you look at these things

You want the easy way out and kill yourself. You're probably a mentally lazy person.

You're here for advice. Someone gave you great advice. Your answer "My brain is to fucked up"

Then un fuck up your brain and take some good advice and change yourself. Is it easy? No. But life isn't easy. Changing your thinking and lifestyle is hard and can make you very uncomfortable. Very hard for a lazy person who believes they are a victim of their choices to do.

You can take most of the advice here and change or take the easy way out. Your choice. The decision you make will determine the type of person you really are. And you are this person by your own choices in life.

Good luck in what ever you decide.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 8 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,340

@previous (H)
> > > I never ever thought I would ever hear this good of or sound advice here. Well said.
> > >
> > > I highly doubt OP will take it as they are still in victim mode and until they see thru that they are fucked.
> > >
> > > But either way, nice post and I totally agree with every word of it.
> >
> > How am I in victim mode?
>
> Read back some of your replies.
>
> > Same here I have bad luck in love and school and work
>
> Bad luck or bad choices?
>
> You think you're the only one who isn't happy with their relationships, school or jobs?
>
> Don't like the way they are going....change it. Change the way you look at these things
>
> You want the easy way out and kill yourself. You're probably a mentally lazy person.
>
> You're here for advice. Someone gave you great advice. Your answer "My brain is to fucked up"
>
> Then un fuck up your brain and take some good advice and change yourself. Is it easy? No. But life isn't easy. Changing your thinking and lifestyle is hard and can make you very uncomfortable. Very hard for a lazy person who believes they are a victim of their choices to do.
>
> You can take most of the advice here and change or take the easy way out. Your choice. The decision you make will determine the type of person you really are. And you are this person by your own choices in life.
>
> Good luck in what ever you decide.

Wtf not only am I mentally weak but also mentally ill. Chat. I'm, so cooked.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 42 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,341

I just want to be happy damn it.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 14 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,343

I'm going to cut myself tonight after these replies.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,346

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·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,347

https://www.gorecenter.com/waterfall-of-blood-from-her-forearm/

·Anonymous H — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,348

@654,343 (Anonymous)
> I'm going to cut myself tonight after these replies.

Good luck. Hope there isn't much pain and you get out of here quick and easy.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 15 seconds later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,349

https://www.gorecenter.com/twitch-girl-livestreams-her-hanging-suicide/

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 55 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,350

@654,348 (H)
> > I'm going to cut myself tonight after these replies.
>
> Good luck. Hope there isn't much pain and you get out of here quick and easy.

I'm not killing myself lul

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 5 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,351

I'm not killing myself to piss people off and I like to die slowly anyways

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 44 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,357

https://www.quora.com/Why-are-intelligent-and-deep-people-always-depressed/answer/Chris-Tor-5?ch=10&oid=1477743792884045&share=3a21e01e&srid=uKI8IO&target_type=answer

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 3 hours later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,360

@654,343 (Anonymous)
when u offer a gal some loving
and she cuts herself instead
what a world
no kisses for me

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 2 hours later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,362

@previous (J)
> when u offer a gal some loving
> and she cuts herself instead
> what a world
> no kisses for me

Black pilled once again am I rite

(Edited 6 seconds later.)

+Anonymous K — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,369

@previous (Anonymous)
kiss pilled

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 17 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,370

@previous (K)
> kiss pilled

What is that

·Anonymous K — 1.3 year ago, 32 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,378

@previous (Anonymous)
all that matters is
giving a sweet gal pal
a kiss
and then running away like sonic
so fast because you are happy like a sonic
with a chilli dog

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,380

@previous (K)
> all that matters is
> giving a sweet gal pal
> a kiss
> and then running away like sonic
> so fast because you are happy like a sonic
> with a chilli dog

🤯

+Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 30 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,384

@654,281 (Anonymous)
@654,281 (Anonymous)
> > First understand that it all comes from within. No one else is going to save you. There is no magic drug that will save you. Drugs only help you dissociate. Your broken negative mindset will still be there once the effects wear off. Change your thoughts and actions and you'll change your life.
> >
> >
> > So remove the negative mindset. Only have a positive internal dialogue and don't ever disrespect yourself. For a positive mental state you must do positive things and surround yourself with positivity. Positive actions and positive thoughts daily. Exercise, study something, anything big or small that will affect you positively will do. Clean your room! Because if you do nothing today and just think negatively you'll feel like nothing and be depressed. Do more and you'll become more. Do less and you'll feel like less.
> >
> > Use your past only for experience gained. Don't live in the past because there's no going back so it'll just put you into a state of depression. Same with the future. Plan for the future but don't stress about the future. That'll just put you into a state of anxiety. It's not productive. Remember that tomorrow is promised to no one. So focus on making the present time the best it could possibly be.
> >
> > And also remove the selfishness from your thoughts. Don't wake up thinking your life is shit and thinking your problems are insurmountable and that everything is about you. Remove the selfish I and me from your thoughts. Eliminate the victim mindset. Thinking you're a victim is the gateway to depression. So think instead how you can best serve the people around you today.
> >
> > I don't know if this mindset will help you but it's what helped me. I feel great every day and none of the challenges of adult life we all face even phase me now. Now I chose the positive mindset over the negative one and I see problems as just another experience for me to overcome and learn from.
> >
> > Choose the positive spin on life and alter your perception for the better.
>
> All good advice but my brain is too fucked to corporate

This is why I despise these types of ppl. They come in with all sorts of mental health issues and when people offer some decent and practical advice. its always insufficient or some excuse as to why they cant/wont. No answer is right and we all end up like looking like assholes.

I agree with the other person who said they're in victim mode. people like that never get out of that because to get out would require personal accountability.

Like if you're not gonna make any real meaningful effort then why tf are you on here asking us for?
The ones who are actually qualified and went to school to deal with this stuff are a phone call away. stop putting us in your weird pity parties and grow tf up.

·Anonymous H — 1.3 year ago, 6 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,387

@previous (L)
Well said!

(Edited 47 seconds later.)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 36 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,388

@654,384 (L)
> > > First understand that it all comes from within. No one else is going to save you. There is no magic drug that will save you. Drugs only help you dissociate. Your broken negative mindset will still be there once the effects wear off. Change your thoughts and actions and you'll change your life.
> > >
> > >
> > > So remove the negative mindset. Only have a positive internal dialogue and don't ever disrespect yourself. For a positive mental state you must do positive things and surround yourself with positivity. Positive actions and positive thoughts daily. Exercise, study something, anything big or small that will affect you positively will do. Clean your room! Because if you do nothing today and just think negatively you'll feel like nothing and be depressed. Do more and you'll become more. Do less and you'll feel like less.
> > >
> > > Use your past only for experience gained. Don't live in the past because there's no going back so it'll just put you into a state of depression. Same with the future. Plan for the future but don't stress about the future. That'll just put you into a state of anxiety. It's not productive. Remember that tomorrow is promised to no one. So focus on making the present time the best it could possibly be.
> > >
> > > And also remove the selfishness from your thoughts. Don't wake up thinking your life is shit and thinking your problems are insurmountable and that everything is about you. Remove the selfish I and me from your thoughts. Eliminate the victim mindset. Thinking you're a victim is the gateway to depression. So think instead how you can best serve the people around you today.
> > >
> > > I don't know if this mindset will help you but it's what helped me. I feel great every day and none of the challenges of adult life we all face even phase me now. Now I chose the positive mindset over the negative one and I see problems as just another experience for me to overcome and learn from.
> > >
> > > Choose the positive spin on life and alter your perception for the better.
> >
> > All good advice but my brain is too fucked to corporate
>
> This is why I despise these types of ppl. They come in with all sorts of mental health issues and when people offer some decent and practical advice. its always insufficient or some excuse as to why they cant/wont. No answer is right and we all end up like looking like assholes.
>
> I agree with the other person who said they're in victim mode. people like that never get out of that because to get out would require personal accountability.
>
> Like if you're not gonna make any real meaningful effort then why tf are you on here asking us for?
> The ones who are actually qualified and went to school to deal with this stuff are a phone call away. stop putting us in your weird pity parties and grow tf up.

I'm doing real effort I took my zoloft, hush.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 27 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,389

Also asking for help is something stop making my small efforts look shitty

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 21 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,390

You guys as therapists would suck

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 30 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,391

Surfer dude is kewl tho

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 5 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,392

@654,274 (E)
> First understand that it all comes from within. No one else is going to save you. There is no magic drug that will save you. Drugs only help you dissociate. Your broken negative mindset will still be there once the effects wear off. Change your thoughts and actions and you'll change your life.
>
>
> So remove the negative mindset. Only have a positive internal dialogue and don't ever disrespect yourself. For a positive mental state you must do positive things and surround yourself with positivity. Positive actions and positive thoughts daily. Exercise, study something, anything big or small that will affect you positively will do. Clean your room! Because if you do nothing today and just think negatively you'll feel like nothing and be depressed. Do more and you'll become more. Do less and you'll feel like less.
>
> Use your past only for experience gained. Don't live in the past because there's no going back so it'll just put you into a state of depression. Same with the future. Plan for the future but don't stress about the future. That'll just put you into a state of anxiety. It's not productive. Remember that tomorrow is promised to no one. So focus on making the present time the best it could possibly be.
>
> And also remove the selfishness from your thoughts. Don't wake up thinking your life is shit and thinking your problems are insurmountable and that everything is about you. Remove the selfish I and me from your thoughts. Eliminate the victim mindset. Thinking you're a victim is the gateway to depression. So think instead how you can best serve the people around you today.
>
> I don't know if this mindset will help you but it's what helped me. I feel great every day and none of the challenges of adult life we all face even phase me now. Now I chose the positive mindset over the negative one and I see problems as just another experience for me to overcome and learn from.
>
> Choose the positive spin on life and alter your perception for the better.

This advice is actually good. I'll think about it when I feel devastatingly awful 😖

·Dr Phil — 1.3 year ago, 38 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,393

@previous (Anonymous)
Quit acting the victim of life, and in case you're not, then quit being a cunt and go kill yourself.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,394

@previous (Dr Phil)
> Quit acting the victim of life, and in case you're not, then quit being a cunt and go kill yourself.

Thanks dr phil!

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,395

@previous (Anonymous)
May I ask you - Tell me about the best things of your life in the past. Good memories.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 27 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,396

@previous (F)
> May I ask you - Tell me about the best things of your life in the past. Good memories.

It would be being five years old. Last time I was truly happy. 6-10 mehh 11-23 major depression kicked in.

(Edited 13 seconds later.)

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,399

@previous (Anonymous)
Not even a good memory of your first Orgasm?

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,400

@previous (F)
> Not even a good memory of your first Orgasm?

I never orgasmed lmao

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 3 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,401

I'm a virgin loser

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 8 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,402

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 54 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,403

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 28 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,404

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,405

·Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 33 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,409

@654,389 (Anonymous)
if your small efforts actually meant something- you wouldn't be on here asking. Writing long ass paragraphs listing alternatives like others have already suggested only to be met with the same response is part of why people who dont suffer those types of issues dont want anything to do with those who do.

its emotionally, physically and psychologically taxing. Especially when you're already feeling guilt or feeling obligated.

The pills should be enough but now they're not? Talk to therapist? No, they're all shitty and mean and dont understand. I already seen this story more times than I care to admit and what sucks it more or less ends the same way.

nah its over for that.
wanna deal with depression? Get a job/hobby. Go to school. Get tf out the house. Talk to strangers and make some friends even if you dont feel like it. idgaf if im outta line for kicking down sand castles.

anything's better than downing pills or whatever shitty coping mechanism and end up a lonely single mother with a kid name "Jaden" or "Aiden" and two cats.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 10 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,412

@previous (L)
> if your small efforts actually meant something- you wouldn't be on here asking. Writing long ass paragraphs listing alternatives like others have already suggested only to be met with the same response is part of why people who dont suffer those types of issues dont want anything to do with those who do.
>
> its emotionally, physically and psychologically taxing. Especially when you're already feeling guilt or feeling obligated.
>
> The pills should be enough but now they're not? Talk to therapist? No, they're all shitty and mean and dont understand. I already seen this story more times than I care to admit and what sucks it more or less ends the same way.
>
> nah its over for that.
> wanna deal with depression? Get a job/hobby. Go to school. Get tf out the house. Talk to strangers and make some friends even if you dont feel like it. idgaf if im outta line for kicking down sand castles.
>
> anything's better than downing pills or whatever shitty coping mechanism and end up a lonely single mother with a kid name "Jaden" or "Aiden" and two cats.

First of all ll. The job market is fucked rn have you been living under a fucking rock npc? Why go put the house if you have nowhere to go. I go for walks but feel worse after. And I don't have enough rizz to even be a single mom I'll be a single woman and I'm allergic to cats so stfu

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 17 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,415

People that graduated computet science don't have fucking jobs. Fuck college. Biggest scam of all time.

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 10 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,418

@654,400 (Anonymous)
> > Not even a good memory of your first Orgasm?
>
> I never orgasmed lmao

Use Google to learn how you can.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 36 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,419

@previous (F)
> > > Not even a good memory of your first Orgasm?
> >
> > I never orgasmed lmao
>
> Use Google to learn how you can.

I dont want to gooner.

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 53 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,421

@previous (Anonymous)
Do you have a favorite food?

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 50 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,422

@previous (F)
> Do you have a favorite food?

Chinese food

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 3 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,423

@654,418 (F)
> > > Not even a good memory of your first Orgasm?
> >
> > I never orgasmed lmao
>
> Use Google to learn how you can.

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 27 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,425

have you reconsidered my kissing offer

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,426

@previous (J)
> have you reconsidered my kissing offer

Fake news

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,427

@654,422 (Anonymous)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,428

@previous (F)
>

https://youtu.be/9x6_CPozM8o?si=OYW-HaW1iFq_Vv5F

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 14 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,429

@654,425 (J)
> have you reconsidered my kissing offer
https://youtu.be/9x6_CPozM8o?si=OYW-HaW1iFq_Vv5F

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,430

@654,425 (J)
> have you reconsidered my kissing offer

Go fuck la reina catalina, mexicans gotta fuck everything up. Everyone is hounding over her in the other thread

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,431

@previous (Anonymous)
I don’t even know who these name fags are
I’m an outsider here
A bad boy
They say to me “you remember”
And I say… nah… let me kiss this chick

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 6 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,432

@previous (J)
> I don’t even know who these name fags are
> I’m an outsider here
> A bad boy
> They say to me “you remember”
> And I say… nah… let me kiss this chick

You're just lying

·Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 13 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,433

@654,412 (Anonymous)
yeah.. you gotta be random some fat guy doing a whole "im a straight single young woman" RP. I cannot take this even remotely serious. the job market has always been fucked yet people still find jobs. thats not new.

also how tf are you calling somebody an npc when you thought "cis" was gay lingo???

I swear you're not a real human. probably some fbi glowie psyop trying to be hip and cool lol

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 55 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,434

@previous (L)
> yeah.. you gotta be random some fat guy doing a whole "im a straight single young woman" RP. I cannot take this even remotely serious. the job market has always been fucked yet people still find jobs. thats not new.
>
> also how tf are you calling somebody an npc when you thought "cis" was gay lingo???
>
> I swear you're not a real human. probably some fbi glowie psyop trying to be hip and cool lol

Lmao what's even crazier is that I'm a woman not a fed nig

·Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,435

@previous (Anonymous)
Then believe me if you're truly a woman then you're every incel's "dream girl". Not a good look miss.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,436

@previous (L)
> Then believe me if you're truly a woman then you're every incel's "dream girl". Not a good look miss.

I dont give a shit

·Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 2 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,437

@previous (Anonymous)
> > Then believe me if you're truly a woman then you're every incel's "dream girl". Not a good look miss.
>
> I dont give a shit

no no. see you do. You're on here. You're bored and looking for validation in a scumbag shitpost site filled with Degenerates and losers.

Everybody comes to dump their shit and leave. Nobody gives a fuck about solving problems lol

·Anonymous L — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,438

Idk nor do I care about you or your end goal. but im hoping this entire thread just gets closed so we can move on to better and funnier topics. zzzzzzzz

·Anonymous J — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,439

@654,432 (Anonymous)
I see in you a young crazy woman
Who will spice up life
As long as you don’t
Cut me with a knife
I would like to kiss
On the board
Until the other players
Leave
Me and yours
*kiss*

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 19 hours later, 5 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,460

Update Please.

+Anonymous M — 1.3 year ago, 7 hours later, 5 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,470

@previous (F)
if she had kissed me back
She would have found out
I was secretly a frog
And would become a prince

+Anonymous N — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 5 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,472

Go out & enjoy the sun...

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 12 hours later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,518

@654,460 (F)
> Update Please.

This is an update.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 18 seconds later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,519

@654,472 (N)
> Go out & enjoy the sun...

True. I will.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 23 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,520

I realized it just hurts me more feeling bad for myself and playing the victim. It's more worth talking it out with a trusted person with your best intentions at heart instead of committing bad choices with bad people. I need to get closer to God, because I am a weak target for Satan, and I struggle with mental health issues. That's my cross I have to carry every day but with the help of God, saint dymphna patron saint of mental health issues and good succinct advice helps. One day at a time, kill bad thoughts and become a better human being too. To right my wrongs.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 49 seconds later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,521

@654,470 (M)
> if she had kissed me back
> She would have found out
> I was secretly a frog
> And would become a prince

Ribbit

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 5 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,523

@654,470 (M)
> if she had kissed me back
> She would have found out
> I was secretly a frog
> And would become a prince

Thy prince will receive a kiss

·Anon — 1.3 year ago, 2 hours later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,526

@654,518 (Anonymous)
Buy a vibrator and enjoy -

+Chuffed !3qyf8DDj3w — 1.3 year ago, 58 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,532

@previous (Anon)
I like how OP has resolved to get closer with god and you offer a vibrator. Good choice.

·Anon — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,533

@previous (Chuffed !3qyf8DDj3w)
She told someone else she has never had an Orgasm.
My image is a poor choice for a virgin.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,538

@654,526 (Anon)
> Buy a vibrator and enjoy -

No thank you coomer. Silence wench, I do not want to be horny anymore, I want to be happy.

·Anon — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,539

@previous (Anonymous)
You said you have never had a Orgasm and now you tell me you have been horny.
I as well want you to be Happy.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 minute later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,540

@previous (Anon)
> You said you have never had a Orgasm and now you tell me you have been horny.
> I as well want you to be Happy.

I get it. But that only causes more harm than good. Lust is a very difficult sin to overcome I would know. That stuff is for atheists. https://youtu.be/aSzyI93e_zY?si=sygN2QZX1XflKSf0

·Anon — 1.3 year ago, 11 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,541

@previous (Anonymous)
Self Love is always a good attribute.

+Anonymous P — 1.3 year ago, 28 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,542

@654,523 (Anonymous)
gib kiss

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 15 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,543

@previous (P)
> gib kiss

*Kiss*

·Anonymous P — 1.3 year ago, 20 minutes later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,544

@previous (Anonymous)
haha you missed a frog!
🐸
But I am now a prince 🫅
*kiss*

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,547

@previous (P)
> haha you missed a frog!
> 🐸
> But I am now a prince 🫅
> *kiss*

My prince is kind and a gentle fellow ❤️

+Anonymous Q — 1.3 year ago, 7 hours later, 6 days after the original post[T] [B] #654,559

Get a daily schedule and stick to it SMART-ly.

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 12 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,586

@654,547 (Anonymous)
How are you doing today?

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 2 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,590

@previous (F)
> How are you doing today?

I'm okay so far took zoloft, ate food forced myself to get up feeling happy. Thank you for asking kind human.

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 17 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,594

@previous (Anonymous)
Nice progress.

·Anonymous Q — 1.3 year ago, 2 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,601

Feelings are a state of mind…

·Anonymous P — 1.3 year ago, 4 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,611

@654,590 (Anonymous)
Oh what it would be to share a Zoloft with a lovely woman…

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 19 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,660

@previous (P)
> Oh what it would be to share a Zoloft with a lovely woman…

We shall share it, and then kiss.

+Anonymous R — 1.3 year ago, 5 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,674

The problem with 99% of depression advice is that it doesn't work for any one person. You might need to try 50 things to find one which works.

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 12 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,749

@654,660 (Anonymous)
A Kiss then multiple Orgasm's.

+Anonymous S — 1.3 year ago, 5 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,793

just ropemax yourself

·Anonymous E — 1.3 year ago, 1 hour later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,802

@654,674 (R)
Depression is the selfish persons disease. It's a punishment for how they conduct themselves. Their self talk is constantly revolving around themselves in a negative way. Everything in life is just about them. They're so in their head about themselves and so worried about themselves they can't get out of their own negative mind space. If they just removed the selfishness the depression will go away.

Never fall victim to the negative events around you and instead tap into your mental toughness and learn to thrive in any situation. Life isn't always fair but if you're in control of your mental attitude, your mindset, you will always be able to dictate your happiness.

The alternative is to either keep being depressed, commit sudoku or be drugged up and numb to life. Why would anyone choose that? The only real and universal answer is to realise that your thoughts and actions are completely under your control and are the most powerful tools you have to remove depression.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 31 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,805

@previous (E)
> Depression is the selfish persons disease. It's a punishment for how they conduct themselves. Their self talk is constantly revolving around themselves in a negative way. Everything in life is just about them. They're so in their head about themselves and so worried about themselves they can't get out of their own negative mind space. If they just removed the selfishness the depression will go away.
>
> Never fall victim to the negative events around you and instead tap into your mental toughness and learn to thrive in any situation. Life isn't always fair but if you're in control of your mental attitude, your mindset, you will always be able to dictate your happiness.
>
> The alternative is to either keep being depressed, commit sudoku or be drugged up and numb to life. Why would anyone choose that? The only real and universal answer is to realise that your thoughts and actions are completely under your control and are the most powerful tools you have to remove depression.

I agree. The thoughts are the cause of the turmoil. Before I developed major depression my thoughts were more under control even as a young child so that Means I need to learn to control it again.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 7 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,854

Update": feeling great 👍

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 45 seconds later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,855

@654,674 (R)
> The problem with 99% of depression advice is that it doesn't work for any one person. You might need to try 50 things to find one which works.

I wholeheartedly agree brother in christ.

+Anonymous T — 1.3 year ago, 2 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,862

Is it weird that I don't like killing silverfishes by squashing them? I'm not really disgusted by these insects, I just don't like ending a life.

(Edited 2 minutes later.)

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 48 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,864

@previous (T)
> Is it weird that I don't like killing silverfishes by squashing them? I'm not really disgusted by these insects, I just don't like ending a life.

Not weird you're a good person

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 5 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,885

@654,854 (Anonymous)
> Update": feeling great 👍

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 4 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,903

@previous (F)
> > Update": feeling great 👍

How did you find a gif and upload it here

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 15 seconds later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,904

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 14 seconds later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,905

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 47 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,907

I'll be 40 yo woman and a virgin no kids ❤️❤️

·Anonymous F — 1.3 year ago, 59 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,914

@previous (Anonymous)
You could hire a male escort to do what needs to be done.

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.3 year ago, 7 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,915

@previous (F)
> You could hire a male escort to do what needs to be done.

Whats a male escort

+Anonymous U — 1.3 year ago, 12 minutes later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,916

@654,914 (F)
I thought being a gigolo would ba a sweet gig as a younger me. I also vastly overestimated my selling potential, look, and skills.

·Answer Anon — 1.3 year ago, 16 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,952

@654,915 (Anonymous)
> male escort
https://rent.men/
It's possible you end up paying by the Inch

+Anonymous V — 1.3 year ago, 18 hours later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #654,996

Try to help your mom do housework like cleaning the washroom will help!

·Anonymous (OP) — 1.2 year ago, 2 weeks later, 3 weeks after the original post[T] [B] #655,666

@previous (V)
> Try to help your mom do housework like cleaning the washroom will help!

That's helpful

+Anonymous W — 1.2 year ago, 2 days later, 4 weeks after the original post[T] [B] #655,782

@OP
Contrary to what many assume, depression has nothing to do with sadness. You do not experience it because of a loss or similar, rather it is caused by your reward system going off balance.
The way the reward circuit in the brains works is by releasing dopamine when your body is stimulated in a "beneficial" way (eating, esp sugar), and seggs) or catching a glance of a goal you're pursuing. Why the quotes around "beneficial" ? Because the purpose is to push you to feed and reproduce, but your body can be cheated with foods saturated with sugar and salt, or fapping/pr0n. Now, the aim is to push you to spend energy to move forward and do constructive things in your life, the pleasure is only a means to that end, not the end itself.

The problem when you can order food without leaving your couch is that you get that dopamine stimulation without any effort, same when you open your stash of furry inflation. Just like insulin or other drugs, dopamine is subject to tolerance. So the more you use it the less potent it is, and isn't it weird how tolerance doesn't become a problem when someone hunts for their food (or at least cooks it) and has healthy seggs (with all the pair bonding and parenting it should involve). It only starts to fuck up when you consoom overstimulating saturated foods and graphic """"""art"""""". Gambling also seems to have that effect, to all you gacha enjoyers out there.
It is rather fortunate that the 2 ways of fixing depression, namely quitting naughty habbits and working steadily towards established goals, happen to complete each other. Doing one helps you with the other, so try to do both at once.

Do not try to beat addiction at once. It is a progressive healing process that takes at least 1 or 2 years, but generally a bit more. Be patient with yourself. Your body was abused, your chemistry hacked, your soul wounded. You need time and effort to heal, just like throwing a dryed up plan in water doesn't insta revive it.
Sleep early with the confidence that you'll do the things you scheduled for tomorrow to make yourself better, or at the very least you'll TRY. Wake up early and try. Take some sunshine (helps with vitamine D, the lack of which causes severe depression). Go outside even if it's for 5mins a day, smile to the cashier and bus driver, greet people walking by. Strangers don't hate you as much as you hatet them.

Finding le love will not fix you. You find love by fixing yourself first anyways, or your risk damaging whoever was stupid enough to settle for a weak, whiney bitch.

Anyways, that's about all I can contribute from my experience. Your journey will be long but trust me, when you get to the other end your only regret will be not having done it sooner.
Oh and even if it probably won't be taken seriously I'll still throw it out there: turning to God helps a lot. You can do it, up and over!

·Anonymous W — 1.2 year ago, 5 minutes later, 4 weeks after the original post[T] [B] #655,783

oh wait, OP is a femoid?
uuuh
adopt kittens
try to work around kids, if not baby sitting them
do some gardening and if you can't, get a few decorative plants

you need to understand that your biology revolves around taking care of weak things and help them grow, this is what you are meant for
try to quit social media and have more actual interractions, maybe volunteer to help lonely old people or sth

+Anonymous X — 1.2 year ago, 13 minutes later, 4 weeks after the original post[T] [B] #655,785

I need to clean my entire home so bad. Why am I always so constipated? Why are people interrupting me with their own scheduled plans I don't really care about? Why do I have a body that needs to be taken care of: to sleep, shower, exercise and eat food? Why do I keep expired foods? Why do all stores have to close at night? Why do I love distracting myself so much? Why do I have such a hard time grasping abstract concepts that are new to me? Why do I believe unimportant stuff is really important to me? I feel like I lost capabilities solving problems younger me had way easier dealing with. I somehow feel like I can't trust anyone or anything anymore either.

+Anonymous Z-1 — 1.1 year ago, 1 month later, 2 months after the original post[T] [B] #656,917

Exercise. Just do it.

·Anonymous N — 1.1 year ago, 2 days later, 2 months after the original post[T] [B] #656,964

Run for 30 minutes. Hard as you can.

·Crazy Goth Girl (OP) — 10 months ago, 2 months later, 4 months after the original post[T] [B] #662,507

Hahaha I've improved so much thank you guys 😘

TinyChan