Topic: I mistakenly assumed guys hate “starfish”
+duck3 — 2.5 years ago #64,437
I have to warn you: this is potentially triggering for some. It involves “race play”. Please do not read further if it bothers or triggers you. I’m very sorry.
My fuck up was I didn’t stop him when I got uncomfortable. I know. I know. I should have.
I met a “neighbor” today from a hookup app. Well, he doesn’t live in my building, but he lives two blocks from my apartment. We hooked up for the first time today after a week of back and forth texting. He wanted go do some “race play” where racial differences are focal points of sexual arousal.
I consider myself sex-positive. I’m all for exploring consensual and legal sex. But, I guess I am not as sex-positive as I thought. He enjoyed the fact that he was white and was physically much more massive than I was. That difference in body size and race led to some pretty…”interesting” fantasies on his end. I tried to participate as much as I could, but in the end, his racist eroticism proved too much for my taste.
This is where I fully acknowledge I fucked up. I should have told him that his racist monologue was not working for me. But he was already inside me and he was “my type” (read: he was hot). So I played along a little longer, trying to zone out his actual words. I thought maybe if I just closed my eyes and concentrated on enjoying the physical sensation of him inside my ass, I could tolerate him.
But I couldn’t. I was weighing his hotness against his racist fantasies in my head. After some consideration, I concluded I would have to ghost him. I played starfish to kill his mood and his erection. Maybe he’d leave. Guys hate starfishes right?
Unfortunately, not all guys. My starfish act had the opposite effect: it aroused him even more. He went even harder, to the point where I thought my flimsy Ikea bed frame might actually collapse. And here, I will quote him verbatim: “Oh you can’t play dead with a hungry polar bear (presumably because he is…white???). I will rip your little yellow commie vietcong ass to shhhhhreds!!” And then he came.
And the worst part of this? I’m not even Vietnamese.
tl;dr I thought most dudes hated starfish. I was wrong and got a racist creampie in my butt.
My fuck up was I didn’t stop him when I got uncomfortable. I know. I know. I should have.
I met a “neighbor” today from a hookup app. Well, he doesn’t live in my building, but he lives two blocks from my apartment. We hooked up for the first time today after a week of back and forth texting. He wanted go do some “race play” where racial differences are focal points of sexual arousal.
I consider myself sex-positive. I’m all for exploring consensual and legal sex. But, I guess I am not as sex-positive as I thought. He enjoyed the fact that he was white and was physically much more massive than I was. That difference in body size and race led to some pretty…”interesting” fantasies on his end. I tried to participate as much as I could, but in the end, his racist eroticism proved too much for my taste.
This is where I fully acknowledge I fucked up. I should have told him that his racist monologue was not working for me. But he was already inside me and he was “my type” (read: he was hot). So I played along a little longer, trying to zone out his actual words. I thought maybe if I just closed my eyes and concentrated on enjoying the physical sensation of him inside my ass, I could tolerate him.
But I couldn’t. I was weighing his hotness against his racist fantasies in my head. After some consideration, I concluded I would have to ghost him. I played starfish to kill his mood and his erection. Maybe he’d leave. Guys hate starfishes right?
Unfortunately, not all guys. My starfish act had the opposite effect: it aroused him even more. He went even harder, to the point where I thought my flimsy Ikea bed frame might actually collapse. And here, I will quote him verbatim: “Oh you can’t play dead with a hungry polar bear (presumably because he is…white???). I will rip your little yellow commie vietcong ass to shhhhhreds!!” And then he came.
And the worst part of this? I’m not even Vietnamese.
tl;dr I thought most dudes hated starfish. I was wrong and got a racist creampie in my butt.
+Anonymous B — 2.5 years ago, 41 minutes later[T] [B] #647,911
That’s fucking weird duckie
+Anonymous C — 2.5 years ago, 27 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #647,912
+Anonymous D — 2.5 years ago, 54 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #647,913
Whew, glad I'm not this far on the autism spectrum.. almost made an atheist thank Jesus on this one
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+Anonymous E — 2.5 years ago, 26 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #647,914
@previous (D)> Whew, glad I'm not this far on the autism spectrum.. almost made an atheist thank Jesus on this one
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