Notice: Home alone tonight?
Topic: How to make friends in the real world
+Anonymous A — 7 years ago #53,037

How can I make friends in the real world? Is there a place that I can show up to, talk to people, and make friends without seeming like a creep? I do not want to go to bars alone. It makes me look like I am just trying to pick up chicks or I'm gay and trying to pick up guys.
+Anonymous B — 7 years ago, 5 minutes later[T] [B] #562,633
AA meetings.
+Dead !Pool..v42s — 7 years ago, 30 seconds later, 5 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #562,634
Go to a coffee shop, bookstore ect
+Anonymous D — 7 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #562,637
@OP
General Geographic area you live? How large is your town-city?
·Anonymous A (OP) — 7 years ago, 8 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #562,641
@previous (D)
Amerifat. It is pretty big so there are a lot of resources if that is what you mean.
·Anonymous A (OP) — 7 years ago, 34 seconds later, 17 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #562,642
@562,634 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
Alone? It seems creepy to do that and then start talking to random people.
·Anonymous D — 7 years ago, 41 minutes later, 59 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #562,650
@562,641 (A)
Then you need to do some simple research. Hit web for
Events Weekend should offer a Looooooooong list of fun things to do. People gather to have fun among other people. People also gather to do community events like cleaning up this or that. Bottom line is to get out where people gather and are active and healthy. Look for healthy events but of course a wine tasting is cool.
·Dead !Pool..v42s — 7 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #562,651
@562,642 (A)
Just bring a conversation piece that wouldn't be out of place at a coffeeshop or bookstore, or dress like a hipster. Build a rapport with your barista/book person and then eventually talking to the other patrons that are strangers to you will get easier and less awkward, in my experience at least.
+Dr. Chattanooga !!SlFawOoKvd — 7 years ago, 3 hours later, 4 hours after the original post[T] [B] #562,687
@562,650 (D)
Is
Events Weekend re: 15 minute dryve from thee?
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