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Topic: Getting over the loss of my mother

+Anonymous A10.6 years ago #44,444

Mom unexpectedly passed away a week ago in the bathroom and I rushed back from another country and saw them shut off the machine while holding her in my hands. Funeral service is on Sunday. Any advice on getting over the loss of a beloved family member whom I was never a good son of? Thanks in advance

+Anonymous B10.6 years ago, 3 minutes later[T] [B] #485,981

Take an interest in her hobbies until they become your own. Then she'll always be with you in a way.

+Anonymous C10.6 years ago, 5 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #485,994

Many ways to choose to get over it. About a week after my dad died, I went and got a tattoo of a cross, with his birth and death year over the top, and DAD underneath of it. I will do the same whenever it's mom's time. It doesn't ease the pain of his absence, but he's always with me.

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+Dr.G.K.Louie Ph.D !uSk4BCgU1.10.6 years ago, 3 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,027

My grandmother passed yesterday. My advice, don't be a pussy.

+💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc10.6 years ago, 2 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,046

My grandpa passed away a few months ago. I didnt even talk to him on the phone the whole time he was sick and he died so quickly and its depressing

+Anonymous F10.6 years ago, 10 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,047

@previous (💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc)
> I didnt even talk to him on the phone the whole time he was sick and he died so quickly and its depressing
Locate old people home close to you. Go visit and offer a hand of help to some random guy.
In religion this is called an act of contrition.

·💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc10.6 years ago, 1 hour later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,054

@previous (F)
How is that going to make me feel better about never saying goodbye? Never having a last conversation .

·💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc10.6 years ago, 30 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,055

But that sounds nice. I like old people. They're from my favourite time. 1900s

·Anonymous F10.6 years ago, 4 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,056

@486,054 (💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc)
You will feel better because you will make some old dude happy.

·💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc10.6 years ago, 4 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,057

@previous (F)
I wish I wasn't so socially awkward

·Anonymous B10.6 years ago, 8 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,060

@486,055 (💄ducky👗 !MwWb.dJjRc)
Hey, I'm from the 1900's :(

·Anonymous C10.6 years ago, 41 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[T] [B] #486,074

@previous (B)

> Hey, I'm from the 1900's :(


Me too...

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