Topic: shrink said to write a list of reasons why i feel shitty

+Triptych !IupsXZPnnU — 12.6 years ago #31,972

that was a weird experience

+duckie !AiQkqOKm/c — 12.6 years ago, 1 minute later[T] [B] #368,260

+Anonymous C — 12.6 years ago, 43 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[T] [B] #368,261

@OP

> that was a weird experience

Did you have any realizations?

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,263

@previous (C)
nah, it's all stuff i think about a lot. some of it's shifted, and i've weeded out the stuff that doesn't bother me any more

@368,260 (duckie !AiQkqOKm/c)
i already shared one but i'll post it again cause it pisses me off still
- my violin teacher from age 6-16 became very lecherous when I was 15. there were some group lessons, so he’d drive me to those. On the way back he would stop at a parking lot at a dog park and kiss me. He’d put my hand on his. Hug me very tightly and feel my ass. Ask if i’d ever been with an older man before. Sit me on his lap. He would quite literally cry to my mother about his wife’s MS. his kid was older than me. fuck that guy

·duckie !AiQkqOKm/c — 12.6 years ago, 8 minutes later, 14 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,268

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
OMG oh fuck that guy

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 48 seconds later, 15 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,269

@previous (duckie !AiQkqOKm/c)
it was a bad time

·duckie !AiQkqOKm/c — 12.6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,273

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
things are getting better now hopefully

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 23 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,275

@previous (duckie !AiQkqOKm/c)
that thing is over yes
most of the bad things are
not all

·duckie !AiQkqOKm/c — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,276

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
you got a better support system now I think?

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 29 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,277

@previous (duckie !AiQkqOKm/c)
um there's shrink, there's boyfriend (sometimes) and there's internet

+Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 12.6 years ago, 1 minute later, 31 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,278

@368,263 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
I'm sorry, bud. People are shitty. Was he ever charged with anything or confronted?

+FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI — 12.6 years ago, 37 seconds later, 32 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,279

@368,263 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
That's... Seriously fucked up. I don't even know how else to respond to a disclosure like that.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,281

@368,278 (Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk)
no, i just waited until we moved. it was more uncomfortable cause the lessons were in my room, so what was a comfortable space...wasn't
mostly i'm worried that he'll move on to someone else

@previous (FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI)
s'cool
i think that sort of thing is a lot more common than people want to think or are willing to admit

(Edited 30 seconds later.)

·duckie !AiQkqOKm/c — 12.6 years ago, 16 seconds later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,282

@368,277 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
the internet loves you

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 51 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,283

@previous (duckie !AiQkqOKm/c)
i <3 the internet

+Anonymous F — 12.6 years ago, 5 minutes later, 41 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,288

@368,263 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
I assume you never told your parents about this? Why is that?

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 45 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #368,289

@previous (F)
my mum's not so stable

·Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 12.6 years ago, 48 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #368,316

@368,281 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
That's understandable.

I know it wouldn't be pleasant to bring it up, but it might provide you some closure if you did confront that individual today... just FYI there is no statute of limitations in Canada for the prosecution of crimes like this, even simple sexual assault can land someone in prison for up to 10 years. Of course it won't make up for what happened, but at least you would be helping make sure he wouldn't be able to victimize anyone else. Or if you want to drop his dox, word can get out without you being involved. Your call though. I'm not going to tell you what to do, and I understand that this is a sensitive subject... it's just something to consider.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #368,321

@previous (Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk)
his name is calvin befus and he lives in calgary, alberta
i'm not really sure what to do about it. i'll tell shrink and see what they say

edit:
this is his
http://funtasticfiddlers.com/home.php
used to teach at irene besse academy of music/keyboards
this is him
http://www3.telus.net/sleeveen/sleeveen_files/slide0025_image087.jpg
gross
i feel gross

(Edited 6 minutes later.)

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #368,325

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
his wife is much easier to contact online
connie ramsey-befus
i need to stop looking into this now

·FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI — 12.6 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,328

@368,321 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
Yikes. That's quite a mug.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,329

@previous (FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI)
dude's older than my father
my father is in his mid-50s now

+Bert's messenger — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,330

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
Bert asked me to remind you that he is not that teacher guy.....and also to remind you that he has stopped being lecherous in any way towards you....he said to add 'just saying' after I told you those two things.
Good day.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,331

@previous (Bert's messenger )
okay m8

·Anonymous F — 12.6 years ago, 59 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,332

@368,321 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
> Funtastic Fiddlers

Wow, the double entendre is just so fucked up. :\

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,334

@previous (F)
huh, i guess
it's mostly small children, i babysat the youngest who was... 5? ranges from around 7-13 mostly, i was the eldest by the time i was 15

+Anonymous H — 12.6 years ago, 9 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,336

You might have seen this story already, it's been all over the local news. A woman records the audio confession of her former teacher that molested her since she was 12. Unfortunately for her the statute of limitations has run out. She posted it on youtube.

http://abclocal.go.com/kabc/story?section=news/local/los_angeles&id=9400191

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,338

@previous (H)
I saw the video. It wrenched my heart. I hope things work out. The accused has resigned, which is good.

The name I gave myself is the name of the victim. That is interesting.

(Edited 2 minutes later.)

·Anonymous H — 12.6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,341

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
Yeah pretty heartbreaking. Unfortunately she can't be prosecuted for that crime but just yesterday anothe woman accused her of molesting her as well. Hopefully she can get prosecuted on that case.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,345

@previous (H)
it would be lovely to see justice served

·Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,346

@368,321 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
I think talking to your psych about it is a great idea.

Thanks for the information btw, I'm sure it wasn't pleasant for you to dig that up, but hopefully it can be put to good use.

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,348

@previous (Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk)
put to good use?

·Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 12.6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,349

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
Do you still have my e-mail?

·Triptych !IupsXZPnnU (OP) — 12.6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,350

@previous (Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk)
check it

·Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 12.6 years ago, 40 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,354

@previous (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
Replied.

+Action Bastard !01ThaneEso — 12.6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #368,357

@368,321 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)

Justice.

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