Topic: Something I would like to share :)
+Anti — 12.9 years ago #27,856
I have been considering some anal fantasies for quite some time.
I refer to the anus as an “equal-opportunity orifice.” Everyone has one, and the anus is a sensitive area of the body, with lots of nerve endings and muscles that contract during orgasm. Some men may simply enjoy the physical sensation of being penetrated. For others, the cultural baggage may be part of their enjoyment---they may get off on the fact that they are breaking taboos or assuming a submissive role when they would ordinarily be expected to be dominant. These feelings can be powerfully erotic.
For couples who would like to explore strap-on play, there are great books and DVDs available, such as Violet Blue’s Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex or Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Pegging. Tantus, a U.S. manufacturer of quality sex toys, makes a “Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit” that includes a harness and two silicone dildos of different sizes---one small and one medium, both smooth and simple. We generally recommend that people start with a slender dildo on the smaller side, especially if they are new to anal penetration, and that they stick with 100% silicone dildos that are non-toxic and can easily be sterilized.
Purchasing items for strap-on play can be a financial investment---I haven’t found a truly sturdy harness for less than $40, and 100% silicone dildos usually start around $30. It’s worth buying quality products, because a harness that slips around or a dildo that smells or causes irritation can put you right off an activity that might otherwise be a lot of fun. Your sex life is not a time to cut corners.
Finally, don’t forget lubricant, which is essential for comfortable anal play. Thick, water-based gel lubricants are a popular choice for strap-on sex. I usually recommend choosing one that’s paraben-free (since these preservative chemicals can cause a burning sensation in some people) and glycerin-free (since glycerin can suck moisture out of your body’s cells, causing irritation). You want your lube to soothe, not irritate, your butt! Sliquid Ride water-based lubricant is a safe choice for most.
Enjoy.
I refer to the anus as an “equal-opportunity orifice.” Everyone has one, and the anus is a sensitive area of the body, with lots of nerve endings and muscles that contract during orgasm. Some men may simply enjoy the physical sensation of being penetrated. For others, the cultural baggage may be part of their enjoyment---they may get off on the fact that they are breaking taboos or assuming a submissive role when they would ordinarily be expected to be dominant. These feelings can be powerfully erotic.
For couples who would like to explore strap-on play, there are great books and DVDs available, such as Violet Blue’s Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex or Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Pegging. Tantus, a U.S. manufacturer of quality sex toys, makes a “Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit” that includes a harness and two silicone dildos of different sizes---one small and one medium, both smooth and simple. We generally recommend that people start with a slender dildo on the smaller side, especially if they are new to anal penetration, and that they stick with 100% silicone dildos that are non-toxic and can easily be sterilized.
Purchasing items for strap-on play can be a financial investment---I haven’t found a truly sturdy harness for less than $40, and 100% silicone dildos usually start around $30. It’s worth buying quality products, because a harness that slips around or a dildo that smells or causes irritation can put you right off an activity that might otherwise be a lot of fun. Your sex life is not a time to cut corners.
Finally, don’t forget lubricant, which is essential for comfortable anal play. Thick, water-based gel lubricants are a popular choice for strap-on sex. I usually recommend choosing one that’s paraben-free (since these preservative chemicals can cause a burning sensation in some people) and glycerin-free (since glycerin can suck moisture out of your body’s cells, causing irritation). You want your lube to soothe, not irritate, your butt! Sliquid Ride water-based lubricant is a safe choice for most.
Enjoy.
+Anti — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later[T] [B] #326,487
TL;DR+Anti — 12.9 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,492
I changed my mind. Anal smells like shit.
+ !NoGoD1GamE — 12.9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,497
Rapeculture is not sexist about who he wants to rape
+On !Uvm54ORbmo — 12.9 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,512
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