Topic: the full story of quack vs ducky from quack's point of view
+quack !DIIsquackU — 12.9 years ago #27,824
since some people seem to care
the beginning - you know this part
met ducky on omegle in 2010, thought shes a dumb kid but used to msn video call me every few days flashing her *very nice* tits
showed her a gif of a dead cat or something, she blocked me for half a year plus, i didn't care
decided to unblock me when she was in egypt in august 2011, showed me dresses she bought, i thought shes pretty, we talked, didn't seem so dumb then (probably cause no weed in egypt)
was still with her canadian bf who was about to dump her cause dumb, used to ask him if she can send me nudes all the time, he didn't mind
at that point I still didn't know her full name or anything
googled her first name which is very unique and exists only once in canada and got her full name, address, and phone # incl. dad
googled more, figured out she was a camwhore on 4chan and rapidshares with 600+ nudes exist
*cool*
relationship
ducky starts becoming really clingy, tells me how much she loves me every 10 minutes, sends me nudes all the time
told me she stopped cutting herself because of me - tighs are messed up
felt nice being loved like this, she's that kind of person who would do anything for you just to keep you *as long as she cares*
we chat for hours every day, partly on skype audio + video calls and flirt
tells me "you own me", "I'll be yours forever", "I'll watch you die" (that seemed sweet in the moment), "marry me asap"
lots of very kinky e sex, that's the most difficult part to get over cause it was awesome
tells me how much she hates her family and her "cunt mother" and how much she wants her to die from lung cancer (see next chapter)
every now and then short fights about her pot smoking which i wanted her to quit, which made her friends hate me cause their lives revolve around smoking pot only - u should see their instagrams
started asking me to visit her in egypt about a year ago, got very clingy about it, kept asking "get me out of here", "marry me asap"
tells her mom about me, she seems to like me, figures out I don't play xbox and am getting a good education so everything perfect
turns out her family is too poor to visit egypt in 2013 so I thought ok she's the type of girl who has what it takes to make a relationship last for a long time (lol)
meaning her submissiveness, her I'll-take-care-of-you mentality and her sticking to classical role models and everything just matched my idea of a perfect wife
so yolo, went to the airport and booked a flight to canada and a rental car, thinking I'll meet my future wife or at least a girl i'm gona stay with for a very long time - 2 years have passed at that point
her family
...is just fucked up.
her dad's a conservative muslim living in a fake world, family hides everything from him. wife bangs another guy, daughter leaves house in muslim conformant clothes just to change around the corner etc.
ducky can only have a male friend because her dad thinks he's gay (which he probably is) and no danger to her virginity
mother smokes many packs a day, has lots of health issues, ducky for a long time hates both of them and the lack of privacy cause no locks in door and thin walls everywhere
mom's not really a muslim but not really anything else and very undecided, just lives in the moment, and impossible to get answers from her which will become a problem later on
the trip
so the plan was I visit her in canada
i wanted to talk to her dad, thought whats the big deal, he does a job similar to mine, he seems smart, i'm ok with marrying her, I would change religion on paper so let's just figure this out - less hassle
saw no reason why he wouldn't like me
ducky and mom insist we don't tell him so *fine alright*
I go to canada, pick up rental car, drive to a motel close to ducky, check in, take a shower, text her come over
I wait outside, her SUV pulls in, after 5 minutes she steps out, we hug forever and kiss in the rain
went to my room, 20 minutes later her top was off, not awkward talking to each other at all, everythings perfect
trip was 16 days
for the first week she makes up excuses every day to stay out, like seeing her friends, or sleeping over there, apparently very stressful for her
met her mom on the second day - "what a decent guy"
second week was road trip, she told her dad she's going with a bunch of girl friends
everything still fine, lots of fun and cuddling
at the end i bought her a (cheap) ring and we call it a pre engagement ring meaning it means we're gona get engaged in order to get married later, this was due to that she wanted her parents to be in it before actually getting engaged
we still kiss at the airport and I go home
when things got fucked up
so after I arrive home my first priority is to make plans of seeing her again
I ask her - hurr idk
I ask her mom - hurr idk
I don't know what's going on, she still tells me she's my gf and loves me and everything, actually nothing has changed, but for some reason she doesn't wanna meet me soon only maybe in december
I don't get it, keep asking, offer to come again in october - nope too stressful for her, ask her to go on a trip to europe with her girl friend to cover up, nope.
I assume her family is the reason which i would have understood, she tells me nope.
I assume so anyway and write her mom a few emails with the polite version of fix ur shit and give your daughter a normal life, answer is random gibberish and whining how shit her life is, asks me to "focus on my future" when I ask her for next meeting date, didn't answer any of my questions
I get more and more frustrated and keep trying to make plans but ducky completely loses it every time i bring it up
after a while i get frustrated and say fuck you, I'm just gona email your dad to resolve this
she's like hurr durr no he will kill me blablablabla, I say I don't care its my only option of working this out
she convinces me not to, so the frustration keeps building up on my side
at some point i get so pissed due to mindfuck I just lose it
she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
okay fine
more frustration
I say you know what, tell me whats going on or I'll spam your nudes - not the smartest thing to do but she just refused to be open all this time and I didn't know what was going on
she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
I say what's the point it's too late now things are just fucked up
she's like nononono I'll be with you hurr durr we'll meet in december hurr durr
I'm like okay fine
weeks pass by and when I ask her simple questions about meeting details she freaks out all over again, random gibberish, blabla
I thought she was just trolling me and the above events happen a few more times cause I get more and more pissed
its a never ending loop of fighting and making up, ducky promises she'll stay with me in december
I can't break up cause I loved her too much and she never ever told me her real thoughts so I couldn't give up hope and break up
at some point we have a fight and i tell her you know what, i spent more than 4k dollars to pick up my future wife, that was also your plan, now it turns out i spent it on a 2 week date and you won't even tell me why
she says dont worry ill pay you back
I'm pissed off as fuck and tell her ok do it or I'll spam your nudes
she's like that's extortion
I'm like whatever I take it back I'll just spam them whenever I feel like it
over time our roles change and she's no longer the one who wants to keep this up, but for some reason I took over that position, maybe cause i got addicted to her clingyness she showed during the first few fights
above event happens one more time, and she goes to tell her mom and mom decides to go to cops
now i feel fucked over, knowing I've done some shit I wasn't supposed to do and didn't even think I could do, but I still feel fucked over
the end
poll is to save morbid some typing
the beginning - you know this part
met ducky on omegle in 2010, thought shes a dumb kid but used to msn video call me every few days flashing her *very nice* tits
showed her a gif of a dead cat or something, she blocked me for half a year plus, i didn't care
decided to unblock me when she was in egypt in august 2011, showed me dresses she bought, i thought shes pretty, we talked, didn't seem so dumb then (probably cause no weed in egypt)
was still with her canadian bf who was about to dump her cause dumb, used to ask him if she can send me nudes all the time, he didn't mind
at that point I still didn't know her full name or anything
googled her first name which is very unique and exists only once in canada and got her full name, address, and phone # incl. dad
googled more, figured out she was a camwhore on 4chan and rapidshares with 600+ nudes exist
*cool*
relationship
ducky starts becoming really clingy, tells me how much she loves me every 10 minutes, sends me nudes all the time
told me she stopped cutting herself because of me - tighs are messed up
felt nice being loved like this, she's that kind of person who would do anything for you just to keep you *as long as she cares*
we chat for hours every day, partly on skype audio + video calls and flirt
tells me "you own me", "I'll be yours forever", "I'll watch you die" (that seemed sweet in the moment), "marry me asap"
lots of very kinky e sex, that's the most difficult part to get over cause it was awesome
tells me how much she hates her family and her "cunt mother" and how much she wants her to die from lung cancer (see next chapter)
every now and then short fights about her pot smoking which i wanted her to quit, which made her friends hate me cause their lives revolve around smoking pot only - u should see their instagrams
started asking me to visit her in egypt about a year ago, got very clingy about it, kept asking "get me out of here", "marry me asap"
tells her mom about me, she seems to like me, figures out I don't play xbox and am getting a good education so everything perfect
turns out her family is too poor to visit egypt in 2013 so I thought ok she's the type of girl who has what it takes to make a relationship last for a long time (lol)
meaning her submissiveness, her I'll-take-care-of-you mentality and her sticking to classical role models and everything just matched my idea of a perfect wife
so yolo, went to the airport and booked a flight to canada and a rental car, thinking I'll meet my future wife or at least a girl i'm gona stay with for a very long time - 2 years have passed at that point
her family
...is just fucked up.
her dad's a conservative muslim living in a fake world, family hides everything from him. wife bangs another guy, daughter leaves house in muslim conformant clothes just to change around the corner etc.
ducky can only have a male friend because her dad thinks he's gay (which he probably is) and no danger to her virginity
mother smokes many packs a day, has lots of health issues, ducky for a long time hates both of them and the lack of privacy cause no locks in door and thin walls everywhere
mom's not really a muslim but not really anything else and very undecided, just lives in the moment, and impossible to get answers from her which will become a problem later on
the trip
so the plan was I visit her in canada
i wanted to talk to her dad, thought whats the big deal, he does a job similar to mine, he seems smart, i'm ok with marrying her, I would change religion on paper so let's just figure this out - less hassle
saw no reason why he wouldn't like me
ducky and mom insist we don't tell him so *fine alright*
I go to canada, pick up rental car, drive to a motel close to ducky, check in, take a shower, text her come over
I wait outside, her SUV pulls in, after 5 minutes she steps out, we hug forever and kiss in the rain
went to my room, 20 minutes later her top was off, not awkward talking to each other at all, everythings perfect
trip was 16 days
for the first week she makes up excuses every day to stay out, like seeing her friends, or sleeping over there, apparently very stressful for her
met her mom on the second day - "what a decent guy"
second week was road trip, she told her dad she's going with a bunch of girl friends
everything still fine, lots of fun and cuddling
at the end i bought her a (cheap) ring and we call it a pre engagement ring meaning it means we're gona get engaged in order to get married later, this was due to that she wanted her parents to be in it before actually getting engaged
we still kiss at the airport and I go home
when things got fucked up
so after I arrive home my first priority is to make plans of seeing her again
I ask her - hurr idk
I ask her mom - hurr idk
I don't know what's going on, she still tells me she's my gf and loves me and everything, actually nothing has changed, but for some reason she doesn't wanna meet me soon only maybe in december
I don't get it, keep asking, offer to come again in october - nope too stressful for her, ask her to go on a trip to europe with her girl friend to cover up, nope.
I assume her family is the reason which i would have understood, she tells me nope.
I assume so anyway and write her mom a few emails with the polite version of fix ur shit and give your daughter a normal life, answer is random gibberish and whining how shit her life is, asks me to "focus on my future" when I ask her for next meeting date, didn't answer any of my questions
I get more and more frustrated and keep trying to make plans but ducky completely loses it every time i bring it up
after a while i get frustrated and say fuck you, I'm just gona email your dad to resolve this
she's like hurr durr no he will kill me blablablabla, I say I don't care its my only option of working this out
she convinces me not to, so the frustration keeps building up on my side
at some point i get so pissed due to mindfuck I just lose it
she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
okay fine
more frustration
I say you know what, tell me whats going on or I'll spam your nudes - not the smartest thing to do but she just refused to be open all this time and I didn't know what was going on
she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
I say what's the point it's too late now things are just fucked up
she's like nononono I'll be with you hurr durr we'll meet in december hurr durr
I'm like okay fine
weeks pass by and when I ask her simple questions about meeting details she freaks out all over again, random gibberish, blabla
I thought she was just trolling me and the above events happen a few more times cause I get more and more pissed
its a never ending loop of fighting and making up, ducky promises she'll stay with me in december
I can't break up cause I loved her too much and she never ever told me her real thoughts so I couldn't give up hope and break up
at some point we have a fight and i tell her you know what, i spent more than 4k dollars to pick up my future wife, that was also your plan, now it turns out i spent it on a 2 week date and you won't even tell me why
she says dont worry ill pay you back
I'm pissed off as fuck and tell her ok do it or I'll spam your nudes
she's like that's extortion
I'm like whatever I take it back I'll just spam them whenever I feel like it
over time our roles change and she's no longer the one who wants to keep this up, but for some reason I took over that position, maybe cause i got addicted to her clingyness she showed during the first few fights
above event happens one more time, and she goes to tell her mom and mom decides to go to cops
now i feel fucked over, knowing I've done some shit I wasn't supposed to do and didn't even think I could do, but I still feel fucked over
the end
poll is to save morbid some typing
(Edited 2 minutes later.)
| Poll option | Votes | Percentage | Graph |
|---|---|---|---|
| ok | - | 0% | |
| post re: autism, caretaker, kill yourself, pedo, etc. | - | 0% |
+Anonymous B — 12.9 years ago, 7 minutes later[T] [B] #325,987
You sound like a weird control freak.
(Edited 14 seconds later.)
+Anonymous C — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,988
Did your caretaker OK this?
She would have told you that you come across very bad.
She would have told you that you come across very bad.
·Anonymous B — 12.9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 13 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,995
About time you started spamming those nudes though
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 15 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,996
@325,987 (B)
maybe that's what I am, but then I've also been for the past 2 years so it was fair play
maybe that's what I am, but then I've also been for the past 2 years so it was fair play
·Anonymous B — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,997
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 43 seconds later, 18 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,998
+ducky !MwWb.dJjRc — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #325,999
@325,997 (B)
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
maybe if he wasnt to scary, demanding, unpredictable, emotionally unstable, threatening, mean, whatever else, then I coulda talked to him
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
maybe if he wasnt to scary, demanding, unpredictable, emotionally unstable, threatening, mean, whatever else, then I coulda talked to him
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 21 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,000
@previous (ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)
you know very well that happened way later AFTER I've been in a constant state of ?????? for a month
u keep thinking I started threatening you and that's why everything failed. not saying what I did was ok, but YOU did your part FIRST
you know very well that happened way later AFTER I've been in a constant state of ?????? for a month
u keep thinking I started threatening you and that's why everything failed. not saying what I did was ok, but YOU did your part FIRST
(Edited 2 minutes later.)
·ducky !MwWb.dJjRc — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 23 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,002
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
i could see you were emotionally unstable the moment you got home and became hysterical.
i could see you were emotionally unstable the moment you got home and became hysterical.
+Syntax — 12.9 years ago, 8 seconds later, 23 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,003
Out in the open because just because.
I think that when you Sir Quack said
> after a while i get frustrated and say fuck you, I'm just gona email your dad to resolve this
> she's like hurr durr no he will kill me blablablabla, I say I don't care its my only option of working this out
Fact is and you know how true this is - Fathers can flip out and daughters do end up in hospitals or dead.
I also know from experience that getting in the middle of a couple breaking up and trying to help fails 90+% of the time.
Sorry really truly sorry to see all this going on. I Know you are in pain. And none of us can read her mind. Yes she communicates with me off of Chans but I am smart enough never to ask her or for that matter you in private ANY Questions as Details are not really necessary nor can one expect people caught up in horrid emotions to be clear to anyone much less themselves.
AND now its shower time for me as I keep putting it off and am stinky from my daily beach run.
I think that when you Sir Quack said
> after a while i get frustrated and say fuck you, I'm just gona email your dad to resolve this
> she's like hurr durr no he will kill me blablablabla, I say I don't care its my only option of working this out
Fact is and you know how true this is - Fathers can flip out and daughters do end up in hospitals or dead.
I also know from experience that getting in the middle of a couple breaking up and trying to help fails 90+% of the time.
Sorry really truly sorry to see all this going on. I Know you are in pain. And none of us can read her mind. Yes she communicates with me off of Chans but I am smart enough never to ask her or for that matter you in private ANY Questions as Details are not really necessary nor can one expect people caught up in horrid emotions to be clear to anyone much less themselves.
AND now its shower time for me as I keep putting it off and am stinky from my daily beach run.
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,006
+Anonymous F — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,007
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 4 minutes later, 33 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,008
@326,002 (ducky !MwWb.dJjRc)
and please tell me more about emotional stability, as a person who goes from "GET ME THE HELL OUT OF HERE I HATE MY LIFE MARRY ME GET ME OUT I'D PICK YOU OVER THEM ANY TIME" to "actually i like my family and i wanna stay here, they're more important than my bf" in a week
and please tell me more about emotional stability, as a person who goes from "GET ME THE HELL OUT OF HERE I HATE MY LIFE MARRY ME GET ME OUT I'D PICK YOU OVER THEM ANY TIME" to "actually i like my family and i wanna stay here, they're more important than my bf" in a week
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+Mo !HS8PU6P2TM — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,010
@OP> since some people seem to care
>
> the beginning - you know this part
> met ducky on omegle in 2010, thought shes a dumb kid but used to msn video call me every few days flashing her *very nice* tits
> showed her a gif of a dead cat or something, she blocked me for half a year plus, i didn't care
> decided to unblock me when she was in egypt in august 2011, showed me dresses she bought, i thought shes pretty, we talked, didn't seem so dumb then (probably cause no weed in egypt)
> was still with her canadian bf who was about to dump her cause dumb, used to ask him if she can send me nudes all the time, he didn't mind
> at that point I still didn't know her full name or anything
> googled her first name which is very unique and exists only once in canada and got her full name, address, and phone # incl. dad
> googled more, figured out she was a camwhore on 4chan and rapidshares with 600+ nudes exist
> *cool*
>
> relationship
> ducky starts becoming really clingy, tells me how much she loves me every 10 minutes, sends me nudes all the time
> told me she stopped cutting herself because of me - tighs are messed up
> felt nice being loved like this, she's that kind of person who would do anything for you just to keep you *as long as she cares*
> we chat for hours every day, partly on skype audio + video calls and flirt
> tells me "you own me", "I'll be yours forever", "I'll watch you die" (that seemed sweet in the moment), "marry me asap"
> lots of very kinky e sex, that's the most difficult part to get over cause it was awesome
> tells me how much she hates her family and her "cunt mother" and how much she wants her to die from lung cancer (see next chapter)
> every now and then short fights about her pot smoking which i wanted her to quit, which made her friends hate me cause their lives revolve around smoking pot only - u should see their instagrams
> started asking me to visit her in egypt about a year ago, got very clingy about it, kept asking "get me out of here", "marry me asap"
> tells her mom about me, she seems to like me, figures out I don't play xbox and am getting a good education so everything perfect
> turns out her family is too poor to visit egypt in 2013 so I thought ok she's the type of girl who has what it takes to make a relationship last for a long time (lol)
> meaning her submissiveness, her I'll-take-care-of-you mentality and her sticking to classical role models and everything just matched my idea of a perfect wife
> so yolo, went to the airport and booked a flight to canada and a rental car, thinking I'll meet my future wife or at least a girl i'm gona stay with for a very long time - 2 years have passed at that point
>
> her family
> ...is just fucked up.
> her dad's a conservative muslim living in a fake world, family hides everything from him. wife bangs another guy, daughter leaves house in muslim conformant clothes just to change around the corner etc.
> ducky can only have a male friend because her dad thinks he's gay (which he probably is) and no danger to her virginity
> mother smokes many packs a day, has lots of health issues, ducky for a long time hates both of them and the lack of privacy cause no locks in door and thin walls everywhere
> mom's not really a muslim but not really anything else and very undecided, just lives in the moment, and impossible to get answers from her which will become a problem later on
>
> the trip
> so the plan was I visit her in canada
> i wanted to talk to her dad, thought whats the big deal, he does a job similar to mine, he seems smart, i'm ok with marrying her, I would change religion on paper so let's just figure this out - less hassle
> saw no reason why he wouldn't like me
> ducky and mom insist we don't tell him so *fine alright*
> I go to canada, pick up rental car, drive to a motel close to ducky, check in, take a shower, text her come over
> I wait outside, her SUV pulls in, after 5 minutes she steps out, we hug forever and kiss in the rain
> went to my room, 20 minutes later her top was off, not awkward talking to each other at all, everythings perfect
> trip was 16 days
> for the first week she makes up excuses every day to stay out, like seeing her friends, or sleeping over there, apparently very stressful for her
> met her mom on the second day - "what a decent guy"
> second week was road trip, she told her dad she's going with a bunch of girl friends
> everything still fine, lots of fun and cuddling
> at the end i bought her a (cheap) ring and we call it a pre engagement ring meaning it means we're gona get engaged in order to get married later, this was due to that she wanted her parents to be in it before actually getting engaged
> we still kiss at the airport and I go home
>
> when things got fucked up
> so after I arrive home my first priority is to make plans of seeing her again
> I ask her - hurr idk
> I ask her mom - hurr idk
> I don't know what's going on, she still tells me she's my gf and loves me and everything, actually nothing has changed, but for some reason she doesn't wanna meet me soon only maybe in december
> I don't get it, keep asking, offer to come again in october - nope too stressful for her, ask her to go on a trip to europe with her girl friend to cover up, nope.
> I assume her family is the reason which i would have understood, she tells me nope.
> I assume so anyway and write her mom a few emails with the polite version of fix ur shit and give your daughter a normal life, answer is random gibberish and whining how shit her life is, asks me to "focus on my future" when I ask her for next meeting date, didn't answer any of my questions
> I get more and more frustrated and keep trying to make plans but ducky completely loses it every time i bring it up
> after a while i get frustrated and say fuck you, I'm just gona email your dad to resolve this
> she's like hurr durr no he will kill me blablablabla, I say I don't care its my only option of working this out
> she convinces me not to, so the frustration keeps building up on my side
> at some point i get so pissed due to mindfuck I just lose it
> she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
> okay fine
> more frustration
> I say you know what, tell me whats going on or I'll spam your nudes - not the smartest thing to do but she just refused to be open all this time and I didn't know what was going on
> she's like nononono I wanna be with you hurr durr
> I say what's the point it's too late now things are just fucked up
> she's like nononono I'll be with you hurr durr we'll meet in december hurr durr
> I'm like okay fine
> weeks pass by and when I ask her simple questions about meeting details she freaks out all over again, random gibberish, blabla
> I thought she was just trolling me and the above events happen a few more times cause I get more and more pissed
> its a never ending loop of fighting and making up, ducky promises she'll stay with me in december
> I can't break up cause I loved her too much and she never ever told me her real thoughts so I couldn't give up hope and break up
> at some point we have a fight and i tell her you know what, i spent more than 4k dollars to pick up my future wife, that was also your plan, now it turns out i spent it on a 2 week date and you won't even tell me why
> she says dont worry ill pay you back
> I'm pissed off as fuck and tell her ok do it or I'll spam your nudes
> she's like that's extortion
> I'm like whatever I take it back I'll just spam them whenever I feel like it
> over time our roles change and she's no longer the one who wants to keep this up, but for some reason I took over that position, maybe cause i got addicted to her clingyness she showed during the first few fights
> above event happens one more time, and she goes to tell her mom and mom decides to go to cops
>
> now i feel fucked over, knowing I've done some shit I wasn't supposed to do and didn't even think I could do, but I still feel fucked over
>
> the end
>
> poll is to save morbid some typing
tl;dr
no one cares
·Anonymous C — 12.9 years ago, 14 seconds later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,011
You miss out the part where you threatened to kill yourself repeatedly on the this board as emotional blackmail.You also miss out the part where you threaten to email her nudes to her father on this board.
Again you miss out the part where you threaten to dox her and ruin her life before your suicide on this board.
Please tell us where on the timeline this happened. I bet post-mother email and during dad threatening.
> Interfere by emailing her mother telling her about raising her child
> Continue against the mothers and daughters wish to try and contact the father to force your will upon them
She is clearly in a position where she can't do much because of her parents and when she was unspecific with "hurr idk" about your return date it was clear she was having second thoughts.
Instead of letting her think things over about a life changing decision to abandon a controlling family for a man she met online - you went over her head to force a conclusion by contacting the mother and then threaten with the father.
She trusted you enough to introduce you to her mother and then you email her in an attempt to control Ducky.
Can you not see how this is a controlling behavior which would have set off red flags for Ducky?
Ducky should have considered this more carefully before she let you visit her. But that's what you get for dating young girls. Stupidity.
But you should have realized the post-date ambiguity was a natural deliberation of what you were asking of her; to leave her family and everyone behind to move away with you and you showed your true character unable to see or handle that.
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·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 6 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,013
@previous (C)
> You miss out the part where you threatened to kill yourself repeatedly on the this board as emotional blackmail.
not as emotional blackmail, cause I really felt that shitty. unbelievable, huh?
> You also miss out the part where you threaten to email her nudes to her father on this board.
> Again you miss out the part where you threaten to dox her and ruin her life before your suicide on this board.
that's covered by the repeated events
> Please tell us where on the timeline this happened. I bet post-mother email and during dad threatening.
I don't even remember
> >Interfere by emailing her mother telling her about raising her child
> >Continue against the mothers and daughters wish to try and contact the father to force your will upon them
I never contacted him?
> She is clearly in a position where she can't do much because of her parents and when she was unspecific with "hurr idk" about your return date it was clear she was having second thoughts.
I kinda expected her to talk to me about it, since we always talked about EVERYTHING. And it is only clear to you beacuse my text hints it, which it does only NOW that I even know about it.
> Instead of letting her think things over about a life changing decision to abandon a controlling family for a man she met online - you went over her head to force a conclusion by contacting the mother and then threaten with the father.
When I contacted her mother, I thought she's the one trying to block everything because noone ever told me anything.
>
> She trusted you enough to introduce you to her mother and then you email her in an attempt to control Ducky.
As I said, I didn't email her to control ducky, I emailed her asking her to STOP controlling ducky because that's what I thought was going on.
> Can you not see how this is a controlling behavior which would have set off red flags for Ducky?
lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
> Ducky should have considered this more carefully before she let you visit her. But that's what you get for dating young girls. Stupidity.
> But you should have realized the post-date ambiguity was a natural deliberation of what you were asking of her; to leave her family and everyone behind to move away with you and you showed your true character unable to see or handle that.
She seemed VERY much decided before I went there, so very decided that I didn't even consider the chance of her changing her mind.
> You miss out the part where you threatened to kill yourself repeatedly on the this board as emotional blackmail.
not as emotional blackmail, cause I really felt that shitty. unbelievable, huh?
> You also miss out the part where you threaten to email her nudes to her father on this board.
> Again you miss out the part where you threaten to dox her and ruin her life before your suicide on this board.
that's covered by the repeated events
> Please tell us where on the timeline this happened. I bet post-mother email and during dad threatening.
I don't even remember
> >Interfere by emailing her mother telling her about raising her child
> >Continue against the mothers and daughters wish to try and contact the father to force your will upon them
I never contacted him?
> She is clearly in a position where she can't do much because of her parents and when she was unspecific with "hurr idk" about your return date it was clear she was having second thoughts.
I kinda expected her to talk to me about it, since we always talked about EVERYTHING. And it is only clear to you beacuse my text hints it, which it does only NOW that I even know about it.
> Instead of letting her think things over about a life changing decision to abandon a controlling family for a man she met online - you went over her head to force a conclusion by contacting the mother and then threaten with the father.
When I contacted her mother, I thought she's the one trying to block everything because noone ever told me anything.
>
> She trusted you enough to introduce you to her mother and then you email her in an attempt to control Ducky.
As I said, I didn't email her to control ducky, I emailed her asking her to STOP controlling ducky because that's what I thought was going on.
> Can you not see how this is a controlling behavior which would have set off red flags for Ducky?
lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
> Ducky should have considered this more carefully before she let you visit her. But that's what you get for dating young girls. Stupidity.
> But you should have realized the post-date ambiguity was a natural deliberation of what you were asking of her; to leave her family and everyone behind to move away with you and you showed your true character unable to see or handle that.
She seemed VERY much decided before I went there, so very decided that I didn't even consider the chance of her changing her mind.
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·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 9 minutes later, 52 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,016
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
and I forgot to mention that ducky was the one who kept telling me to talk to her mom about it
and I forgot to mention that ducky was the one who kept telling me to talk to her mom about it
+Anonymous H — 12.9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 55 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,017
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
why not quit being a little sadsacked moaning baby...grow a pair and quit crying cause you were too dumb to hold on to her affection..
knawmean..
why not quit being a little sadsacked moaning baby...grow a pair and quit crying cause you were too dumb to hold on to her affection..
knawmean..
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+Anonymous I — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 56 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,018
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 38 seconds later, 57 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,019
I feel like after the trip I went full speed in the wrong direction cause I didn't know shit until it was too late.
·Anonymous C — 12.9 years ago, 5 seconds later, 57 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,020
@326,013 (quack !DIIsquackU)
> I kinda expected her to talk to me about it, since we always talked about EVERYTHING. And it is only clear to you beacuse my text hints it, which it does only NOW that I even know about it.
I think it would be clear to me as the events were taking place. People typically become despondent and distant when deciding on life changing decisions in their life. You can't have an objective discussion around "Do I really want this?" with the other party involved in it who is hugely affected by it.
> lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
Maybe. But you guessed wrong and revealed a bad side of yourself.
> She seemed VERY much decided before I went there, so very decided that I didn't even consider the chance of her changing her mind.
She was and that's why she agreed to spend 2 weeks with you; if she decided to take you for a ride she would have waited until you'd paid for a visit to Europe. She is a young girl who has never had to make a big decision like this; her change of heart at the last step is something you should have considered.
As Syntax and others have said; this was a cheap life lesson for you. Other people get to the wedding day before they finally get fucked.
Ducky should have seriously thought earlier; nobody is absolving her in what she did wrong. But your reaction has been just as wrong.
> I kinda expected her to talk to me about it, since we always talked about EVERYTHING. And it is only clear to you beacuse my text hints it, which it does only NOW that I even know about it.
I think it would be clear to me as the events were taking place. People typically become despondent and distant when deciding on life changing decisions in their life. You can't have an objective discussion around "Do I really want this?" with the other party involved in it who is hugely affected by it.
> lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
Maybe. But you guessed wrong and revealed a bad side of yourself.
> She seemed VERY much decided before I went there, so very decided that I didn't even consider the chance of her changing her mind.
She was and that's why she agreed to spend 2 weeks with you; if she decided to take you for a ride she would have waited until you'd paid for a visit to Europe. She is a young girl who has never had to make a big decision like this; her change of heart at the last step is something you should have considered.
As Syntax and others have said; this was a cheap life lesson for you. Other people get to the wedding day before they finally get fucked.
Ducky should have seriously thought earlier; nobody is absolving her in what she did wrong. But your reaction has been just as wrong.
·Mo !HS8PU6P2TM — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 58 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #326,021
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,022
@326,020 (C)
> I think it would be clear to me as the events were taking place. People typically become despondent and distant when deciding on life changing decisions in their life. You can't have an objective discussion around "Do I really want this?" with the other party involved in it who is hugely affected by it.
it wasn't only black or white, there were many solutions, most of them not being life changing.
>
> > lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
> Maybe. But you guessed wrong and revealed a bad side of yourself.
a side of myself I never ever met before
also @326,019 (quack !DIIsquackU)
> I think it would be clear to me as the events were taking place. People typically become despondent and distant when deciding on life changing decisions in their life. You can't have an objective discussion around "Do I really want this?" with the other party involved in it who is hugely affected by it.
it wasn't only black or white, there were many solutions, most of them not being life changing.
>
> > lol in retrospect everything makes perfect sense, but with a complete lack of information I could only act on best guesses.
> Maybe. But you guessed wrong and revealed a bad side of yourself.
a side of myself I never ever met before
also @326,019 (quack !DIIsquackU)
·Syntax — 12.9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,023
@326,020 (C)
> this was a cheap life lesson for you
As someone who spent a few years in court over a break up - and even in court over a break up with someone I was not married2
But beyond the $$$ spent - Lessons we learn in life in the school of hard knocks are just that. Its a rough road to bliss but honest its worth the bumps and dents along the way.
I with one minor exception wood not change a thing re a few mistrakes I made. One that lasted 6 weeks was a gal who had just gotten out of Betty Ford clinic for Coke problem - Only for me to find out it was here 6th tyme - Then I stepped back and out ....Some things cannot be fixed
AND AND AND This statement when I used it the first time has been gold to me
NOT ALL PROBLEMS HAVE SOLUTIONS
> this was a cheap life lesson for you
As someone who spent a few years in court over a break up - and even in court over a break up with someone I was not married2
But beyond the $$$ spent - Lessons we learn in life in the school of hard knocks are just that. Its a rough road to bliss but honest its worth the bumps and dents along the way.
I with one minor exception wood not change a thing re a few mistrakes I made. One that lasted 6 weeks was a gal who had just gotten out of Betty Ford clinic for Coke problem - Only for me to find out it was here 6th tyme - Then I stepped back and out ....Some things cannot be fixed
AND AND AND This statement when I used it the first time has been gold to me
NOT ALL PROBLEMS HAVE SOLUTIONS
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,025
> cheap
those were half my savings. most of the guys studying with me don't even have that much.
those were half my savings. most of the guys studying with me don't even have that much.
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·Syntax — 12.9 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,032
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
Yea but I am talking about days going back to when I had very little cash - Trust this even when my Cash was more then OK - Marriage that first year of drains wot was OK in2 not so much
Years from now that money will mean nothing - not with the education and work experience you are getting - The emotional stuff and lessons will hang on - Took me a couple of years to get over a Strawberry Blonde who truly wanted me buttttttt holding hands over dinner - Her Blue Eyes and smile never 2b 4gotten - and then she said Lets talk about us and our future and children and I was flippant which is NOT my normal self - I guess a bit flustered and made some kind of dumb joke and guess wot she did?
She said she needed to make a phone call. TURNED out to be a Cab...And then she turned to me as she was passing the table at the restaurant and said ....This relationship is no longer working for me
Broke my heart truly did and it was months and then Friends intervention to get me out of the house and back to work.
> also is there anything you didn't experience in your life?
DEATH
Yea but I am talking about days going back to when I had very little cash - Trust this even when my Cash was more then OK - Marriage that first year of drains wot was OK in2 not so much
Years from now that money will mean nothing - not with the education and work experience you are getting - The emotional stuff and lessons will hang on - Took me a couple of years to get over a Strawberry Blonde who truly wanted me buttttttt holding hands over dinner - Her Blue Eyes and smile never 2b 4gotten - and then she said Lets talk about us and our future and children and I was flippant which is NOT my normal self - I guess a bit flustered and made some kind of dumb joke and guess wot she did?
She said she needed to make a phone call. TURNED out to be a Cab...And then she turned to me as she was passing the table at the restaurant and said ....This relationship is no longer working for me
Broke my heart truly did and it was months and then Friends intervention to get me out of the house and back to work.
> also is there anything you didn't experience in your life?
DEATH
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,034
·Mo !HS8PU6P2TM — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #326,039
+Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 38 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,071
What's Ducky's brother like?
@OP
@OP
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 52 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,073
idk never met him
sets buildings on fire and has to go to court
gets high w friends and runs over each others arms with trucks
sets buildings on fire and has to go to court
gets high w friends and runs over each others arms with trucks
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·Syntax — 12.9 years ago, 43 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,075
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 52 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,076
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,078
then theres a cousin who shoots himself in the eye with a paintball gun
some family that is
some family that is
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·Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,084
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
That sounds white American. Nobody throws rocks?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2013/08/06/what-s-wrong-with-throwing-stones.html
> Muhammad Abu Hashem is the protagonist in Monday’s front-page article in the New York Times about the culture of rock throwing among West Bank youth. He has two hobbies: (1) "Children have hobbies, and my hobby is throwing stones"; (2) "One of his hobbies is rescuing abandoned bird eggs and nurturing them in cages warmed by light bulbs until they hatch."
That sounds white American. Nobody throws rocks?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2013/08/06/what-s-wrong-with-throwing-stones.html
> Muhammad Abu Hashem is the protagonist in Monday’s front-page article in the New York Times about the culture of rock throwing among West Bank youth. He has two hobbies: (1) "Children have hobbies, and my hobby is throwing stones"; (2) "One of his hobbies is rescuing abandoned bird eggs and nurturing them in cages warmed by light bulbs until they hatch."
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·Anonymous I — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,087
@326,073 (quack !DIIsquackU)
> idk never met him
>
> sets buildings on fire and has to go to court
> gets high w friends and runs over each others arms with trucks
He sounds like he knows how to have a really good time.
> idk never met him
>
> sets buildings on fire and has to go to court
> gets high w friends and runs over each others arms with trucks
He sounds like he knows how to have a really good time.
·quack !DIIsquackU (OP) — 12.9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,092
im just gona shut off my emotions now and never ever again let anyone close to me.
work. porn. sleep.
work. porn. sleep.
·Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,096
@previous (quack !DIIsquackU)
Ducky you mentally scarred a man for life. Discuss.
Actually it's not really unusual. Though if a man does it to a woman, she will go full chimpout. Bug his family, send his nudes out, dox him, etc.
Ducky you mentally scarred a man for life. Discuss.
Actually it's not really unusual. Though if a man does it to a woman, she will go full chimpout. Bug his family, send his nudes out, dox him, etc.
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·Anonymous H — 12.9 years ago, 47 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,100
+Anonymous K — 12.9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,108
@326,092 (quack !DIIsquackU)
It's called life you melodramatic child, deal with it the same as everyone else has to.
It's called life you melodramatic child, deal with it the same as everyone else has to.
·Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,111
+Anti — 12.9 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,126
@326,084 (J)
> Enjoys stoning people to death and occasionally rescuing wild birds
Lolwut Allahu akbar!
> Enjoys stoning people to death and occasionally rescuing wild birds
·Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,128
@previous (Anti )
He throws rocks at armies of Israeli soldiers with machine guns in armored vehicles. Most of the rock throwers are killed for it. It's very brave actually.
Rock thrower had his arm chopped off by Israeli police: http://globalfire.tv/nj/09en/jews/killingguide.htm
He throws rocks at armies of Israeli soldiers with machine guns in armored vehicles. Most of the rock throwers are killed for it. It's very brave actually.
Rock thrower had his arm chopped off by Israeli police: http://globalfire.tv/nj/09en/jews/killingguide.htm
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·Anonymous H — 12.9 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,135
·Anonymous H — 12.9 years ago, 9 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,147
·Anti — 12.9 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,162
@326,128 (J)
Interesting. Ill have to read both articles in a min.
@326,092 (quack !DIIsquackU)
Fuck bitches, get money. I wouldn't write off dating altogether but you might need a little recovery time. Why not start seeing women on just a casual level though and if you happen to find one you really like you can see where it goes. I would avoid the detached long distance relationship stuff.
Interesting. Ill have to read both articles in a min.
@326,092 (quack !DIIsquackU)
Fuck bitches, get money. I wouldn't write off dating altogether but you might need a little recovery time. Why not start seeing women on just a casual level though and if you happen to find one you really like you can see where it goes. I would avoid the detached long distance relationship stuff.
·Anti — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,164
·Anonymous J — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,167
<---- Yeah but then what about...@326,017 (H)
> why not quit being a little sadsacked moaning baby...grow a pair and quit crying cause you were too dumb to hold on to her affection..
@326,011 (C)
> Again you miss out the part where you threaten to dox her and ruin her life before your suicide on this board.
@325,987 (B)
> You sound like a weird control freak.
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+Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 12.9 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,364
+Anonymous N — 12.9 years ago, 15 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,380
·Anonymous N — 12.9 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,382
·Rapeculture — 12.9 years ago, 50 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,414
Tell us more about her tits
+Anonymous O — 12.9 years ago, 19 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #326,424
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