One has to equipoise between the privileges legally conferred to them by way of affirmative action/positive discrimination (depending upon where you live, etc.) and the ultimately oblivious "bliss" (really a form of silent torment, how does one know of intensity if she is incapable of feeling it?) of their existence. I'd rather, for this reason, remain a man, for that con outweighs the supposed "pro" of their dependence on special government concessions.
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