Topic: Why don't women like nice quiet guys?
+Anonymous A — 13.5 years ago #19,965
Women only seem to want confident and arrogant men they don't care about getting to know the quiet guys like me who are socially awkward and lack confidence. This shows how shallow women are that they only look for confidence in a man which is why you see so many violent and aggressive men in relationships with women because these men have confidence. But the nice quiet guy like myself who has no confidence gets ignored or laughed at by women. I think its wrong and unfair that so many nice quiet guys who lack confidence get nowhere with women.
I'm 28 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a woman, had a girlfriend or even ever had a friend who was female. I'm a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence.
When I was younger I use to naively think that because I was a friendly, polite and quiet person I would eventually attract the interest of a woman now I realize how wrong I was and that women are only interested in alpha males who know what they want and don't care how many people they walk over to get it. Which is why women like 'bad boys' and 'aggressively confident and competitive' men because they are alpha males.
Women only notice guys who are socially accepted and confident and that shows how shallow and weak minded they are.
The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence in men more than anything else and it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is confident. That says it all about women and I think it's pretty sickening.
I'm 28 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a woman, had a girlfriend or even ever had a friend who was female. I'm a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence.
When I was younger I use to naively think that because I was a friendly, polite and quiet person I would eventually attract the interest of a woman now I realize how wrong I was and that women are only interested in alpha males who know what they want and don't care how many people they walk over to get it. Which is why women like 'bad boys' and 'aggressively confident and competitive' men because they are alpha males.
Women only notice guys who are socially accepted and confident and that shows how shallow and weak minded they are.
The fact of the matter is that women are attracted to confidence in men more than anything else and it doesn't necessarily matter if the man is a good person or not so long as he is confident. That says it all about women and I think it's pretty sickening.
+morbid — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later[T] [B] #243,707
you are correct. the only option is to buck up and realize that it's time to kick a punk's head in and steal his bitch to prove your confidence.
+postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago, 24 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,708
Not true of Cupcake, she dates me mostly because of my sweetness, she values kindness, intelligence, and love over confidence. I can even tell you that when I'm down on myself she's there to lift me up. So I think your statement is faulty OP.
+♡ cupcake ♔ !dCImZACAKE — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,712
Well you seem to have a bitterness towards women. We can sense that.@previous (postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
Awwhhh. c: I wuff you for all of your wonderful and unique qualities. You are an amazing creature! ;s; You are not unlike a goose; one of the silly variety.
+Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,715
Women are looking for traits in a man that they want to pass on to their children. Most know it's a dog eat dog world out there and want that survival instinct in their kids. Some women believe that the meek shall inherit the earth, so they look for those traits in a man.
Maybe not you...
Maybe not you...
+ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,718
i am the socially awkward one in the relationship - would suck to have a socially awkward boyfriend. otherwise i like nice guys.
and you know what...maybe if you didnt look down on women so much, you might get a girlfriend, OKAY
and you know what...maybe if you didnt look down on women so much, you might get a girlfriend, OKAY
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·morbid — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 21 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,720
@previous (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
LLLOOOLLLL
says the girl who thinks all women should be obedient slaves to their husbands
LLLOOOLLLL
says the girl who thinks all women should be obedient slaves to their husbands
+Anonymous G — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 24 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,723
@OP
Hang in there Doc.
But seriously, being a 'nice guy' is just an excuse for being a failure. All you are doing when you say you're a nice guy is listing a bunch of faults you don't have. "I'll never beat you", "I'll never stay out with my buddies all night" etc. Boring shit. For every guy like you, there's another guy who is also a nice guy, but he brings other stuff to the table. he can play guitar, the piano, whatever, he can paint, he can do sports, he can fuck her till her ears bleed, he can interest her.
Women do care about 'nice' guys, but BECAUSE there are millions of nice guys in the world, they also want guys who can do other stuff. Men are the same. How many guys dream of meeting a chick who is merely nice? You want a woman who interests and inspires you, right? (at least if you have self-esteem you do). You don't just want some pliant, boring, miserable doormat who'll 'never cheat on you'.
Go learn how to do stuff. In life, you're judged on what you can do, not on being a nice guy. Women like guys who are impressive. It's not enough just to be someone who'll never smack her around. Again, "nice guy" is what a forgettable failure with no talents or skills calls himself.
Start by getting off the internet for a day or 2 Doc and throw a bunch of hours of repetition at some kind of skill.
Hang in there Doc.
But seriously, being a 'nice guy' is just an excuse for being a failure. All you are doing when you say you're a nice guy is listing a bunch of faults you don't have. "I'll never beat you", "I'll never stay out with my buddies all night" etc. Boring shit. For every guy like you, there's another guy who is also a nice guy, but he brings other stuff to the table. he can play guitar, the piano, whatever, he can paint, he can do sports, he can fuck her till her ears bleed, he can interest her.
Women do care about 'nice' guys, but BECAUSE there are millions of nice guys in the world, they also want guys who can do other stuff. Men are the same. How many guys dream of meeting a chick who is merely nice? You want a woman who interests and inspires you, right? (at least if you have self-esteem you do). You don't just want some pliant, boring, miserable doormat who'll 'never cheat on you'.
Go learn how to do stuff. In life, you're judged on what you can do, not on being a nice guy. Women like guys who are impressive. It's not enough just to be someone who'll never smack her around. Again, "nice guy" is what a forgettable failure with no talents or skills calls himself.
Start by getting off the internet for a day or 2 Doc and throw a bunch of hours of repetition at some kind of skill.
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·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 15 seconds later, 24 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,724
@243,720 (morbid )
what is wrong with what i said? are you saying i dont like nice guys because of my wifey role dreams? or that i shouldnt tell him not to look down on women because of my wifey role dreams? idk
what is wrong with what i said? are you saying i dont like nice guys because of my wifey role dreams? or that i shouldnt tell him not to look down on women because of my wifey role dreams? idk
·morbid — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,728
@previous (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
I think it's funny that you say he shouldn't look down on women but you have a very narrow view on the role of women.
I think it's funny that you say he shouldn't look down on women but you have a very narrow view on the role of women.
·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 28 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,736
@previous (morbid )
Well, he is silly. He is just making up excuses as to why women dont want to be with him. umm totally different from thinking your wife should know how to cook, etc, lol
Well, he is silly. He is just making up excuses as to why women dont want to be with him. umm totally different from thinking your wife should know how to cook, etc, lol
·morbid — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 30 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,740
·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 25 seconds later, 30 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #243,741
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