Topic: I met the coolest girl.
+Anonymous A — 13.5 years ago #19,570
She's cute, has a wry sense of humor, isn't "bitchy" or shallow, is pretty smart, and dresses pretty cool.
Then I found out... she is a lesbian. She's so cool, yet totally unavailable.
Fuck.
Then I found out... she is a lesbian. She's so cool, yet totally unavailable.
Fuck.
+Anonymous B — 13.5 years ago, 34 minutes later[T] [B] #239,703
+Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #239,707
@OP
> She's cute, has a wry sense of humor, isn't "bitchy" or shallow, is pretty smart, and dresses pretty cool.
>
> Then I found out... she is a lesbian. She's so cool, yet totally unavailable.
>
> Fuck.
Its possible to turn her around. Something have not actually done but could have if not for having a GF ....Festivals I go to I have sorta Lesbian fan club and its cool they look forward to me dancing with them.
One key event is the Long Beach Cajun-blues fest and there often is a Tattoo convention on the Queen Mary and a slew of the girls cum on over to the fest every year and 75% are Lesbian. One and she may of course be kidding as a taunt but she says if she ever does try a guy she wood like it to b me. She has never been with a male as a partner.
I have gal friends who describe themselves as mostly Lesbian with a bit of Bi - So YOU never know and wot you got to lose for?
> She's cute, has a wry sense of humor, isn't "bitchy" or shallow, is pretty smart, and dresses pretty cool.
>
> Then I found out... she is a lesbian. She's so cool, yet totally unavailable.
>
> Fuck.
Its possible to turn her around. Something have not actually done but could have if not for having a GF ....Festivals I go to I have sorta Lesbian fan club and its cool they look forward to me dancing with them.
One key event is the Long Beach Cajun-blues fest and there often is a Tattoo convention on the Queen Mary and a slew of the girls cum on over to the fest every year and 75% are Lesbian. One and she may of course be kidding as a taunt but she says if she ever does try a guy she wood like it to b me. She has never been with a male as a partner.
I have gal friends who describe themselves as mostly Lesbian with a bit of Bi - So YOU never know and wot you got to lose for?
+Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 4 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,736
+Alias !F.k9urpFoo — 13.5 years ago, 2 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,756
@previous (D)Kook detected.
@OP
You can turn her without pressuring for sexual intercourse. Just get to know her more and more, hang out with her, take her out to lunch, etc. Eventually, if not from the start, it will be just you and her doing something and she may develop an attachment. Show her that not all males aren't pigs and she may change her LGBT status to LGBT. Remember --- everyone is bi, OP. Everyone.
If she is already in a relationship, show some interest in it. Ask how things are going without sounding weird or creepy; that sort of thing. The waiting game is inevitable, so make yourself look good either way under whatever circumstances may be present.
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·Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,771
@previous (Alias !F.k9urpFoo)
Every man that she knows has probably done this. He should just be her friend, and leave it alone.
Every man that she knows has probably done this. He should just be her friend, and leave it alone.
+Aliass !FukdurpFool — 13.5 years ago, 16 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,777
·Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,778
@previous (Aliass !FukdurpFool )
There's a good chance that if he tries something, the relationship will be ruined, and he'll come across as a creeper.
There's a good chance that if he tries something, the relationship will be ruined, and he'll come across as a creeper.
·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 19 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,783
@239,736 (D)
@239,771 (D)
@previous (D)
Major busy with R/L Fun & 2Much WORK! I need to put up my Nun story as a new topic which can/will explain much about the wot if wot if not & how embarrassments can fuck up life -
Y? the question about friend vs maybe more? AND I fully admit that I have a need for GAL Friends who no matter wot I cannot later turn in2 GF's even when they let me know more wood be ok - ask me why later
Honesty is the best policy. Because I am in a long term relationship it gives me freedoms one does not have otherwise - more confidence and for example
1 Dance partner I have known longer then most of you have been alive 20 or so years now - Recently while dinning with a large group of friends, she was sitting next to me and I decided to share how back a bunch of years ago I had a crush on her (She wood invite me out to hang with her) but I just could NOT make that move and when asked later as to Y i will splain.
Anyway she thanked me for letting her know - it removed that Vail of me having something as my secrete - now shared - it has not changed that friendship at all.
So he has nada to lose by telling her - its too bad you're wot you are cause I have a crush on you - Make it simple and honest and I cannot see any creep factor there at all
@239,777 (Aliass !FukdurpFool )
Yea well been there done that - and all I can say in rush is - moving on ain't so easy if your heart is HERE cause its not human nature to just flip off a possibility and move on for who knows wot.
I did post my divorce and ended up flipping off any number after just one date in pursuit of my needs. I got a lot of sex that way and a lot of bad very bad quick relationships - very bad
@239,771 (D)
@previous (D)
Major busy with R/L Fun & 2Much WORK! I need to put up my Nun story as a new topic which can/will explain much about the wot if wot if not & how embarrassments can fuck up life -
Y? the question about friend vs maybe more? AND I fully admit that I have a need for GAL Friends who no matter wot I cannot later turn in2 GF's even when they let me know more wood be ok - ask me why later
Honesty is the best policy. Because I am in a long term relationship it gives me freedoms one does not have otherwise - more confidence and for example
1 Dance partner I have known longer then most of you have been alive 20 or so years now - Recently while dinning with a large group of friends, she was sitting next to me and I decided to share how back a bunch of years ago I had a crush on her (She wood invite me out to hang with her) but I just could NOT make that move and when asked later as to Y i will splain.
Anyway she thanked me for letting her know - it removed that Vail of me having something as my secrete - now shared - it has not changed that friendship at all.
So he has nada to lose by telling her - its too bad you're wot you are cause I have a crush on you - Make it simple and honest and I cannot see any creep factor there at all
@239,777 (Aliass !FukdurpFool )
Yea well been there done that - and all I can say in rush is - moving on ain't so easy if your heart is HERE cause its not human nature to just flip off a possibility and move on for who knows wot.
I did post my divorce and ended up flipping off any number after just one date in pursuit of my needs. I got a lot of sex that way and a lot of bad very bad quick relationships - very bad
·Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,784
@previous (Syntax )
He has much to lose. After he tells her that he's attracted to her, she might not be comfortable around her any longer.
He has much to lose. After he tells her that he's attracted to her, she might not be comfortable around her any longer.
·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,786
@previous (D)
So and I am not arguing your wrong - I mean he could simply say - Well its good we can be just friends and I am looking hard now at how and where I can meet someone cause I am in need of that (companionship)
And do you have any GF's you can intro me too. So he is only asking her for her help - Which by the way could be more then he expected.
And at a point he could with a lite joke say and maybe it could be someone like you with your personality looks and all you have cause its really great you are wot you are but if you were of the other persuasion, I wood ask you out for XYZABC in a heartbeat.
I never once lost a friend for being honest with a friend. If one cannot be honest with someone you like being with wots the point?
So and I am not arguing your wrong - I mean he could simply say - Well its good we can be just friends and I am looking hard now at how and where I can meet someone cause I am in need of that (companionship)
And do you have any GF's you can intro me too. So he is only asking her for her help - Which by the way could be more then he expected.
And at a point he could with a lite joke say and maybe it could be someone like you with your personality looks and all you have cause its really great you are wot you are but if you were of the other persuasion, I wood ask you out for XYZABC in a heartbeat.
I never once lost a friend for being honest with a friend. If one cannot be honest with someone you like being with wots the point?
·Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,788
@previous (Syntax )
Regarding honesty. Does every female need to know when someone wants to fuck them?
Regarding honesty. Does every female need to know when someone wants to fuck them?
·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 15 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,791
@previous (D)
Hummmmmmm probably not.
Good point I will ponder as I now decide on putting a very very old and feeble patient of mine to sleep so as to conserve its energy while I ponder if I feel confident nuff to shake and bake it over and over to shake someThing lose - Kinda like a Hime~lick maneuver - It often works wonders to kick something and in this case its 957 miles abouve my haid and moving at 17,500 MPH and thing is, that Shake n Bake - sometimes it makes things much worse as in patient dies - or lives but is never the same again -
OK Jest did put it to sleep and now I can hit my beach for like maybe 2 hours of ponder tyme n bill my client for.....after all I am working on the case and their cash flow now more better to tap.
Ponder also means I get to get the fuck back to my beach - a bit dreary but even a grey day at beach can still offer things a sunny day wood not.
Hummmmmmm probably not.
Good point I will ponder as I now decide on putting a very very old and feeble patient of mine to sleep so as to conserve its energy while I ponder if I feel confident nuff to shake and bake it over and over to shake someThing lose - Kinda like a Hime~lick maneuver - It often works wonders to kick something and in this case its 957 miles abouve my haid and moving at 17,500 MPH and thing is, that Shake n Bake - sometimes it makes things much worse as in patient dies - or lives but is never the same again -
OK Jest did put it to sleep and now I can hit my beach for like maybe 2 hours of ponder tyme n bill my client for.....after all I am working on the case and their cash flow now more better to tap.
Ponder also means I get to get the fuck back to my beach - a bit dreary but even a grey day at beach can still offer things a sunny day wood not.
·Alias !F.k9urpFoo — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,794
@239,777 (Aliass !FukdurpFool )
Then why bother infiltrating someone's LGBT status preference? If he wants sex and soon then he should buy a hooker.
Then why bother infiltrating someone's LGBT status preference? If he wants sex and soon then he should buy a hooker.
+The Healer — 13.5 years ago, 10 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,796
Upgrade to men.
·Anonymous D — 13.5 years ago, 57 seconds later, 10 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,798
·Aliass !FukdurpFool — 13.5 years ago, 42 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,808
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