Topic: Do you ever think the opposite sex has it easier?

+Anonymous A — 13.5 years ago #19,481

I know it is supposed to balance out but man, I just can't help but feel that women have it so much easier than guys!

I am looking for a girlfriend and have been trying so for the past two years. Since where I work has no single available women, I am primarily trying dating sites and getting nowhere. After a year of messaging girls the furthest I have gotten was a few dates with a girl who dumped me at the end of date five. and she was not a supermodel or anything, she was very average looking.

And I have heard that for women these sites are a cinch. You don't need to be gorgeous or anything, even average and ugly looking girls still receive HUNDREDS of messages from guys every week, and they can pick and choose who they want.

Even if none of those guys becomes long term boyfriend material, they can still get some sex out of the guys easily! And yet for guys, it is such an uphill challenge, messaging plain and unattractive girls and STILL GETTING NOWHERE! Girls don't know how easy they have it.

Honestly, for some guys (like me) it is IMPOSSIBLE to have sex without paying for it (which I have done). But for even AN UGLY WOMAN she can go to any bar on the weekend and get laid. Don't take sex for granted until you can't get any without paying for it.

Women, you don't realise how easy you have it!

+Anonymous B — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later[T] [B] #238,657

inb4 kook

+ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 5 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,659

its really easy being a woman

+Cathy !TGirlYJKXM — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,660

How hard do you think it is being human?

+morbid !Xnp/V/hD1o — 13.5 years ago, 15 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,661

Guys don't bleed out of their dicks every month. We have it easier.

·Anonymous B — 13.5 years ago, 50 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,662

@previous (morbid !Xnp/V/hD1o)
Men bleed out of the stab wounds and bullit holes we receve when defending our land and freedom

·morbid !Xnp/V/hD1o — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,663

@previous (B)
Not if you're a good shot

+Anonymous F — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,665

@238,662 (B)
Lol yeah, I get shot and stabbed every month just like you. It's a bit of a shit having those babies though, innit.

+Gavin !!KyvSN1WTu — 13.5 years ago, 9 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #238,676

Depends what you want from life doesn't it.

If you just want someone to love and desire you then yeah it's easier being a woman. Much easier.

But it's a kyriarchy my matey.
It all depends on what you value and you can specify a group who have it too easy.

+Anonymous H — 13.5 years ago, 4 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #238,956

I was about to post something like the OP. I'm a 23 year old average looking guy. I made profiles on Okcupid and plentyoffish about a week ago. I've messaged ton of women and they either ignore/don't respond or reject me. There are a very few who message back stupid shit, but obviously don't want anything serious with me. You're lucky OP, you've gotten dates out of it. I've messaged tons of women, including fat and ugly (physically and otherwise) ones. The fat and ugly ones act just like the rest, it's unfuckingbelievable. It seems like there is no hope for me to find a woman online, heck I even posted on craigslist, didn't work either. I'm thinking of posting on the casual encounters section, I highly doubt that will work (maybe a bunch of fags will msg me), but I'll do it for lulz anyway.

There is a real fucking problem in the world, it's not just the USA. It's not just a few of us being denied some of the most vital things in life like women and sex, millions of men are being increasingly ignored by women. I'm not one of those conspiracy nuts, but this situation is so precarious that I can't help but notice some patterns. 1) The ever-growing population of homosexuals/lesbians (on okcupid/POF/craigslist there are more homos and lesbians looking for people of the same sex, than there are heteros looking for the opposite sex). 2) The rise of feminism. 3) Women being brainwashed from birth to be attracted to very specific and unrealistic types of men. 4) A culture of idiotically unrestrained and undeserved entitlement. Those are just a few that I have in my mind right now, I can think of many more but right now I'm somewhat pissed at the moment because I can't find a fucking whore online. I'm a 23 year old virgin, and it seems I will remain that way for quite a while, or forever. I haven't tried offline in the real world, but I bet it's not any easier. To top it off, it's fucking illegal to pay for sex, like from an escort - I could go to jail for doing one of the most natural things in the world (sex) with two consenting people. Sex/love/companionship/etc is a birthright of everyone. We're animals, so it's natural there is various forms of competition to attract the opposite sex, but the competition has become absolutely fucking senselessly immense. By the way, I fucking miss Anontalk, you could have great and serious discussions there. It was the best website on the internet, a paragon of excellence. The OP posted a completely reasonable thread, and most of the replies are useless shit.

(Edited 6 minutes later.)

+Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #238,959

@previous (H)
eird question, is there something in your profile thats turning them off? Also, it is stupid, and shitty that prostitution is illegal, because its perfectly fine and legal to be promiscuous when no goods are exchanged.

+Anonymous J — 13.5 years ago, 35 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #238,989

20% of the men get 80% of the women

+Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 12 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,011

@previous (J)
Perhaps that is a good thing. When I am out looking for a relationship I end up rejecting 80% of the women available to me. (not sure if its really 80 but it is a high number)

·Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,018

@238,989 (J)
Basically every guy gets to fuck but you.

+Anonymous L — 13.5 years ago, 5 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,025

it's not a real problem.

problem is that there are certain personality types and/or flaws that contribute to finding a mate being hard. some people have it easier than others. there are guys that live their life on easy mode and there are girls that live their life on easy mode. and vice versa.

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 46 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,029

@OP
> Women, you don't realise how easy you have it!

Me thinks you are looking for luv in all the wrong places and have not a clue where to look so let me help.

Where you live how large a city is it? Are you out in the country or close to a major city with lots n lots of people n lots of things to do?

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,030

@239,025 (L)
Takes a lot of work to connect with the rite person and it takes a lot of work to learn how to remain in a relationship you want to be in.

·Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 54 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,031

@239,029 (Syntax )
I don't think that he'll really take help. He just wanted to bitch.

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 14 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,045

@previous (I)
OK with me. I suspect few here really do no how2 find wot they are lookin4

+Anonymous M — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 7 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,117

@238,662 (B)

> Men bleed out of the stab wounds and bullit holes we receve when defending our land and freedom

So do female Israeli soldiers.

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 41 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,122

@previous (M)
I dated an Israeli soldier - former that is and met her in Beverly Hills. Horrid Jealous streeeek re my gal friends. So any way here are a few pics of wot I saw when working in Israel (representative)

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 20 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,123

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 21 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,124

+Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk — 13.5 years ago, 12 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[T] [B] #239,128

No.

·Anonymous B — 13.5 years ago, 4 days later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #241,739

@239,117 (M)
My current girlfriend was in the Israeli army and she told me only men could be fighters while women had office jobs or support jobs. So no.

+Anonymous O — 13.5 years ago, 17 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #241,748

·Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 26 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[T] [B] #241,763

@241,739 (B)
we believe you

·Anonymous M — 13.5 years ago, 2 days later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #244,078

@241,739 (B)
You're lying. You don't have a girlfriend.

·Anonymous O — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #244,089

@previous (M)
*your're

·Anonymous B — 13.5 years ago, 6 days later, 1 week after the original post[T] [B] #247,934

@244,078 (M)
Prove me wrong

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