Topic: Postmortem needs relationship advice.

+Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago #18,850

Okay, so you guys are fairly familiar with my situation with Cupcake. We've been together for about a year, and a half now, and I've posted about our relationship on here a countless number of times. You've seen love letters, complaints, fights, and everything in between. You also know that she breaks up with me, a lot. Usually for brief periods of time, but very frequently. I know this isn't a good thing, there's no explanation for the behavior that makes it okay.

I don't want to complain too much about this, but I don't like being built up so high, and then being knocked down. She'll say she loves me, and that she sees us together in her future, and that I mean the world to her, and I feel so fantastic. Because that's how I always feel about her, the truth is minichan, I love her quite a bit, and so when she claims to love me back it makes me feel wonderful inside. But then I do something wrong, sometimes it's a serious thing, but usually it isn't, usually it's just some petty argument, and then she tells me I'm shit, tells me everything that's wrong with me, and then says she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I value her so very much, and so when she reminds me of how flawed I am, it really hurts. And the constantly leaving me is not fun, I hate not knowing whether a disagreement will end in a kiss, and make up, or in her leaving me. I've developed a bit of a fear of abandonment, and I don't even think it's totally irrational.

The point is, her love for me seems to go on and off, it isn't stable, and isn't something I can rely on. However, I love her with everything I am, and it's always seemed worth getting back together with her even knowing it will probably end in a few weeks, again, because I feel so perfect when I'm with her. I'm my best with her, she's the love of my life, and often I'd feel as if I'd give anything to be with her just for a moment.

I know you guys are just going to make fun of me, and call me a narcissist, or a faggot, and that's okay. But I just don't know what to do.

Please help.

+Greg !!ZxbX4jw3I — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later[T] [B] #230,234

>>>/mc/

+Beebs !.geNITalIA — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,237

From my experience with this kind of thing, the only thing I can say is don't give a fuck. It doesn't matter. No matter how much your mind tells you it does. That is all.

+Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,242

Really the two of you need to meet for a cup of coffee n cupcakes and then go to Toys R Us and buy a set of these:

·Beebs !.geNITalIA — 13.5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,244

@previous (Syntax )
> ...and then go to Toys R Us and buy Beebs a set of these:

ftfy

+Memories — 13.5 years ago, 20 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,271

beckyderp !CaTLdYmooc joined in and replied with this 3 months ago, 6 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #371,438

I'm sure she'll be very impressed that you posted this on a board read by 20 virgins. It shows you care.

(Edited 18 seconds later.)

+ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 34 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,278

she sux

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq (OP) — 13.5 years ago, 2 seconds later, 34 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,279

@230,237 (Beebs !.geNITalIA)
Actually really sound advice. Thank you.

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 10 seconds later, 34 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,280

op sux

·Beebs !.geNITalIA — 13.5 years ago, 34 seconds later, 35 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,281

@230,279 (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
You're very welcome.

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq (OP) — 13.5 years ago, 51 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,285

@230,280 (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
You sux.

+Anonymous G — 13.5 years ago, 51 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,286

@230,280 (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
Would you reply with something intelligent for once?

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 52 seconds later, 37 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,287

@previous (G)
idk how

+Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 39 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,288

I have no clue about your relationship, today is the first I've heard of it, so you don't want my opinion.

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 40 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,289

obviously this woman has problems but you do too you shouldnt let her think she can just break up with you whenever shes pissed off at you and get back with you when she cooled down. my boyfriend would so not stand for that bullshit

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq (OP) — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 42 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,291

@230,288 (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
Honestly, it's more of a minichan thing, I've been posting about this girl there for about 2 years. I'd still like your opinion.

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq (OP) — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 43 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,295

@230,289 (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
It's getting to the point where I can't just keep letting her do it, but the only answer is to make it a permanent thing. And that's hard, because love and stuff.

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 47 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,300

@previous (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
Love is a four letter word

"Jerk" around starts with a four letter word. So like how many tymes do you end up in the Jerk off mode?

Love should no end up in Jerk off mode. OK in this case you still have Hand. Hand is a four letter word. How many tymes will she do this to you?

You keep losing weight. If that keeps up there will be nada left of you for her to mess with. Last photo you looked as if you had Aids.

Cupcake going to be the death of ya bud.

Just Saying

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 50 minutes after the original post[T] [B] #230,301

@230,291 (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
You won't like it.

+Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #230,305

@previous (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
Haha, give the fag both barrels

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #230,306

@previous (I)
Not unless he asks me to.

·Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 54 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #230,307

@previous (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
fair enough

+Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago, 29 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[T] [B] #230,313

@230,306 (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
I'm asking you to.

@230,300 (Syntax )
Drugs are the cause of my weight loss not Cupcake, but I see your point.

·Anonymous I — 13.5 years ago, 17 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,320

@previous (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
Maybe she should take a few more drugs then?

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,324

@230,313 (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
Very well.

I've been with a lot of girls in my life, even married a couple. This sounds like a classic ploy females use. They start a fight, get all upset, then break up with you. Right? This is because they have recently met someone they are attracted to.

Now this doesn't mean they are going to sleep with this person, it may just be they want to explore other options with you out of the way. She may very well go out and get some strange.

Women are complex creatures and no man born of one will ever understand them. It may by that she is feeling particularly hateful and wants to spare your feelings, although if it is happening as often as you imply. I doubt it.

All this being said my gut is telling me that she is looking for your replacement and when she finds them, you are history.

+Anonymous K — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,325

@previous (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
Yeah, I've seen people who are too chicken to actually break up with someone, so they string them along, and act intentionally cruel, to try and force the other person to leave.

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,332

@230,313 (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
Good story blaming drugs. If you were truly in love you wood not be using drugs. Wot kind of body does that leave you for Cupcake. Not cool dude.

Omen seems to have a handle on where this is headed. I once was dumped and it hurt and I was in love buttttttt in the long run SHE wood have not been good for me over all. Dumped cause she wanted a rapid hookup to alter n then kids. Another Strawberry blonde who was good 2go 2fast in my life.

Very very close in looks but her hair was much lighter

(Edited 36 seconds later.)

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 22 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,354

@230,325 (K)
The trouble is that guys NEVER think it will happen to them. They think "I know she cheated on every dude she was ever with, but not on Me, I'm different".

NOT!

I've even been burned by girls like this.
Once.

+FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI — 13.5 years ago, 14 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,365

@previous (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
because every guy is a sap who somehow thinks he is a unique gift to women and every other man she's ever been with was a photocopy of each other.

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,375

@previous (FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI)
You understood exactly what I meant.

Some of us, however, learn from experience.

Edit: I know I am not god's gift to women, no matter how much I want to be.

(Edited 2 minutes later.)

·Anonymous K — 13.5 years ago, 14 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,391

@230,354 (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)
Women do this too. It drives me insane.

·Omen !!hnQvReR0M — 13.5 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,402

@previous (K)
We are all human.

+Anonymous M — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,474

@230,295 (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)

> It's getting to the point where I can't just keep letting her do it

Also she probably is sleeping with or at least making out with other guys during these periods of breakup. Do you think? You wear condoms with her?

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago, 4 hours later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,743

@230,324 (Omen !!hnQvReR0M)

She does it so often though that the idea of her looking at other options makes her look pathetic. By this logic she's tried and failed countless times. I don't think this is the case here, although I won't completely rule it out.

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,748

@230,474 (M)
I doubt it, she's a bit of a loner. Also, she'd totally bring it up in fights if she did.

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 12 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,751

quit drugs

·Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq — 13.5 years ago, 19 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,760

@previous (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
Prescription adderal, it's because I have ADD, and it helps with school.

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 hours after the original post[T] [B] #230,761

@previous (Postmortem !!QyjvQmlKq)
looool idk if troll

·Anonymous M — 13.5 years ago, 18 hours later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #231,188

@230,751 (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)

like pot?

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #231,191

@previous (M)
at least weed doesnt make you lose a lot of weight and give the creepy druggy look

·Anonymous M — 13.5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #231,196

@previous (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)

It makes you gain weight though and lowers the IQ.

·ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY — 13.5 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #231,268

@previous (M)
i lost weight & never cared for iq :) so im good to go

·Syntax — 13.5 years ago, 4 hours later, 1 day after the original post[T] [B] #231,387

@previous (ducky !LZ0E5ojVGY)
> i lost weight & never cared for iq :) so im good to go

Major funny

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