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> My father calls me names
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> I have a communication problem at home.
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> My family members dislike me. My father calls me names like Longbean.
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> My mother is very busy with my elder brother. She pampers him by giving him everything he wants. She has no time for me.
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> I am the youngest in the family and my two sisters dislike me tagging along with them wherever they go.
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> I feel unloved. I am not allowed to go out with my friends, unlike my sisters.
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> I feel like a maid and a prisoner. I take every chance to avoid my family. I feel like moving out but I have no one to depend on.
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> Prisoner
COUNSELLOR SAYS
Your family seem rather indifferent to you. But how do you behave with them?
You have built up a "wall", alienating yourself from the rest of your family. Avoiding them will not build a better relationship either.
You did not mention your age. I assume you are a teenager. It is not unusual for teenagers to feel alienated. It is a transition stage when you are neither a child nor an adult.
Tell your family how you feel. Take the initiative to talk to them.
Don't be too sensitive about your family calling you names. It may be his way of showing affection. If you do not like it, tell him. But do it sensibly as not to offend him.